Revelation Chapter 2

Jesus’s Letters To The Churches

Chapter two begins with the first of seven letters to the churches. In the Bible, seven often represents completeness. So in choosing seven churches, it includes the complete church. All Christians, individually and as a whole. These letters are not for the benefit of the world but us, His followers.

The Church at Ephesus

Ephesus was world-famous as a religious, cultural, and economic center of the region. It had the notable temple of Diana, a fertility goddess worshipped with immoral sex. The temple was regarded as one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. Satan had a stronghold on Ephesus. Many evil things, both satanic and superstitious, were practiced.

Ephesus was a famous city in ancient times, with an equally famous church. Paul ministered in Ephesus for three years. ( Acts 19:1, 10, Acts 20:31)

Vs. 1; To the angel of the church in Ephesus write: These are the words of Him who holds the seven stars in His right hand and walks among the seven golden lampstands.

The letter was addressed to the angel or the church pastor, but it was also to the whole Church, the body of Christ.

In Rev. 1:20 Jesus explained the mystery of the seven stars and the seven lampstands.

He repeats it because He wants us to know for certain that He is the authority in the church and that He is present in the church. He is central in the church and should be recognized as such. The churches belong to Him, not the leaders of the church or the people of the churches.

Vs. 2-3; I know your deeds, your hard work, and your perseverance. I know that you can not tolerate wicked men, that you have tested those who claim to be apostles but are not, and have found them false. You have persevered and have endured hardships for my name, and have not grown weary.

The condition of the church is not hidden from Jesus. He looks at His church and sees the secret sin or corruption hidden there in the congregation. “I know your works: He would say the same thing to His church today, and He speaks not only to the congregation but to the individuals.

There are also working Christians who do not approach to laboring, yet a lifetime of such work as theirs would not exhaust a butterfly. Now, when a man works for Christ he should work with all his might.

Charles Spurgeon

Jesus first points out what the church is doing right. He saw their deeds, their hard work, and their steadfast patience. They endured hardships in Jesus’ name. They didn’t grow weary. He knew they could not bear evil among them. They tested the claims of apostles and found them false.

When Paul was preaching to the Ephesians, he said this in Acts 20:29-31;

” For I know this, that after my departure savage wolves will come in among you, not sparing the flock. Also from among yourselves men will rise up, speaking perverse things, to draw away the disciples after themselves. Therefore watch, and remember that for three years I did not cease to warn every one night and day with tears.”

Because he said to the Ephesians that He knew they could not bear evil and tested apostles’ claims, we know they took Paul’s message to heart. Could it be the church today has forgotten Paul’s words? Are we testing the claims of the “savage wolves” who have come among us? Or are we letting them tear us apart? Are we listening to them “speaking perverse things”? Are we being drawn away from Jesus and being drawn to them? These are serious questions each of us should be asking ourselves right now, and we should answer truly to ourselves. Jesus knows the answer, do you? The greater the evil, the more deceptive its cloak.

Charles Spurgeon had this to say about the church of Ephesus:

“This was grand of them: it showed a backbone of truth. I wish some of the churches of this age had a little of this holy decision about them; for nowadays if a man be clever; he may preach the vilest lie that was ever vomited from the mouth of hell, and it will go down with some.”

What Jesus Has Against Them

Vs. 4-5; Yet I hold this against you: You have forsaken your first love. Remember the height from which you have fallen! Repent and do the things you did at first. If you do not repent, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place.

Despite the church had a lot going for them; they worked hard without growing weary; they had great outreach; they protected the integrity of the gospel, Jesus had something against them. All their good did not cancel out the bad.

They forsook their first love. At one point, they had a love they no longer have. They didn’t lose it; they left it. When something is lost, it’s by accident but leaving something is deliberate. This is a serious problem. Without love, all is in vain.

As Christians, we are told to love Jesus and to love one another. We can’t say we love Jesus and not love His family. We can’t really love His family if we don’t love Him first. So the love Jesus speaks of here is probably both because they go together.

A church has no reason for being a church when she as no love within her heart, or when that love grows cold. Lose love, lose all.”

Charles Spurgeon

Jesus said in verse two that He saw their hard work. When we focus solely on working for Jesus, we forget to tend to the love relationship we have with Him personally. We can be so focused on what we do for Jesus that we lose sight of who we are in Him. We can go to church, then leave Him there as His parents did. (Luke 2:45-46)

The church at Ephesus was doctrinally pure. Focusing on doctrinal purity can make us grow cold, suspicious, and intolerant of diversity.

When love dies orthodox doctrine becomes a corpse, a powerless formalism. Adhesion to the truth sours into bigotry when the sweetness and light of love to Jesus depart.

Charles Spurgeon

Have you lost your first love? We shouldn’t expect the excitement we had when we were new Christians to stay the same, but the newness’s excitement should grow into a deeper, stronger love for Jesus, our first love. If we are growing in our Christian faith, our love will mature as well. If it hasn’t, then you have left it somewhere; go get it back.

Jesus Tells The Church What They Need To Do

Jesus is talking to the church at Ephesus, but the message is to all Christians as a whole. And I believe, as Christians living in 2020, we’ve never needed to hear this message more. We have left our first love. Jesus is screaming out for us to remember our first love for Him.

Step 1

First, we must remember from where we have fallen and what our love used to be for Him and each other. At a crucial time in history, we are asking ourselves some fundamental questions.

And here are just a few example questions. From where have I fallen? Have I lost my first love? Has my heart grown cold, unforgiving, or judgmental? Am I listening to my Savior’s voice above anyone else’s? Has the love I once had for my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ been diminished? Do I worry more about myself than I do the welfare of my neighbor? Am I more concerned with being right than I am with being kind? Is Jesus talking to me when He says; nevertheless, I have this against you?

Because I often ask myself these questions, I know how hard it is to be brutally honest with oneself, but the times in which we are living demands our utmost honesty. If we do not repent and change our hearts and our deeds, our lamp will be removed.

Step 2

The second thing we must do is repent. What does repent mean? The dictionary defines it this way; to feel or express sincere regret or remorse about one’s wrongdoing or sin. Repent is an action word. Meaning, if you are truly repenting, you want to change the action, the thought, the view, or whatever you are doing wrong that needs changing. When we repent, something changes within us, our minds, and our hearts.

Jesus is talking to His Church and telling them to repent. He doesn’t want them to feel sorrow or regret over their misdeed but to change or stop it altogether. And it seems His message is urgent. He said He would come quickly and remove the lampstand.

Christians’ time to mature has come; our time is running out like sand through an hourglass. If we do not get back to our first works, our candlestick will be removed if this persists.

Step 3

Do the “first works.” That’s what we must do to show our repentance. “First works” are to abound in us. Patience, kindness, godliness, humbleness, forgiveness, self-control, charity, and love are just a few of the first works we must get back to.

This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine. Do any of you remember that song from childhood? Well, the source of our light as Christians is Jesus, and part of our “first works” is to let that light shine. We are to illuminate Jesus and bring Him glory. We are to shed the light of Jesus onto the world. If we fail to continue to do this until Jesus returns, our light will be removed.

Removing Of The Lamp

If you will remember, in Rev. 1:20, Jesus explained the seven stars and the seven golden candlesticks. He said He walked in the midst of the seven candlesticks and tended to their flame. When our candlestick is removed, Jesus has left the building.

When Jesus makes the statement that He is coming to remove their lampstand if they do not repent, He is essentially saying they will no longer have the right to shed His light to the world. They will be disqualified from shedding the Light of Life, Him being that light.

The Pulpit commentary states it this way: The “removing” of the candlestick is not the deposition of the bishop, but the dethroning of the church, canceling its claim to the kingdom, severing its union with Christ.

In essence, they will remain an organization but no longer as a true Church, claiming the coming kingdom. This church will not be known by Jesus when He returns.

Wow! As Christians, we tend to walk around so self-assured, but this tells us we better be positive the “knowledge” we’re spreading is His knowledge and the light we’re shining is His light. Let’s pray this hasn’t already happened to our modern-day churches. Let’s pray His glory has not already departed. (1st Sam. 4:21)

Phil. 1:9; And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment,…

If we lack the “first works,” then we dry up and become unfruitful with our Lord Jesus Christ’s knowledge. Our witness of His knowledge gets removed by Him every time we speak so that others will not hear us without the “first works” abounding in us.

1st Cor. 13:1; If I speak in tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

To stress the point, to drive it home, we can have all knowledge and understanding of Jesus, but without the “first works,” no one will hear or understand our testimony of Him because He, Himself, will remove His light from us.

Vs. 6-7: But you have this in your favor: You hate the practices of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the Churches. To him who overcomes, I will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.

Who Were The Nicolaitans?

The Importance Of Knowing Who They Were

In verse 6, Jesus said they “have this in their favor,” He was proud of them. Why was He proud of them? For their hatred. Hatred of what? Their deeds. Whose deeds? The deeds of the Nicolaitans, which He also “hated.”

The word hate comes from the Greek word miseo, which means to hate, pursue with hatred, detest. Jesus didn’t just dislike these people’s deeds. He “hated” them. So knowing that, shouldn’t we be a bit more curious as to what these people’s “deeds” were? I believe, yes. If Jesus felt utterly repulsed by these people’s deeds, we should know or try to find out what these deeds were.

Nicolaitans

To better understand this, we must consult the letter to the congregation in Pergamos as well, since this is the only other place that Nicolaitans are mentioned:

“Nevertheless, I have a few things against you: You have people there who hold to the teaching of Balaam, who taught Balak to entice the Israelites to sin by eating food sacrificed to idols and by committing sexual immorality. Likewise, you also have those who hold to the teaching of the Nicolaitans.” (Rev. 2:14-15)

So it seems Jesus’ problem with the Nicolaitans was that they held to the teachings of Balaam. You can find the story of Balaam and Balak in the Old Testament, Numbers 22-23. Balaam could not curse the Israelites as Balak wanted, but he told him how to get them to sin by enticing them with sexual immorality and food sacrificed to idols. The Israelites fell into transgression due to these traps, and God sent a deadly plague to them as a result. (Num.:31:16).

The Nicolaitans lived lives of unrestrained indulgence. They taught it is a matter of indifference to practice adultery and eat things sacrificed to idols. Within each of us, God made the desire to worship something or someone. This desire is so strong some will seek out material things or political/religious leaders and create gods of their own making.

Romans 1:22-23 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like mortal man and birds and animals and reptiles.

The Nicolaitans, like all deceivers which come from the body of Christ, claimed “not that they were destroying Christianity, but that they were presenting an improved and modernized version of it.” (Barclay)

To All Who Will Hear

Vs.7: He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To him who overcomes, I will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.

Everyone has “an ear,” so this qualifies everyone who will listen. This letter is not only written to the church at Ephesus in the Apostle John’s day. It is written to all Christians throughout time.

Each one of these seven letters applies to all churches and all Christians. We must hear what the Spirit says to us. These letters are meant to speak to us, but we must have an ear to hear what the Spirit says.

The churches of the land are sprinkled all over with bald-headed old sinners whose hair has been worn off by the constant friction of countless sermons that have been aimed at them and glanced off and hit the man in the pew behind.

H.W. Beecher

A Promise

Jesus made a promise to those who overcome. We tend to think overcoming means to overcome sin or spiritual warfare, but here Jesus is speaking of overcoming our coldness of heart and lack of love brought on by leaving our first love.

The promise to the overcomers is a return to Eden, a restoration of eternal life. The first meaning, in the eternal sense of making it to Heaven. In the sense of seeing the effects of the curse, the second meaning rolled back in our own lives through walking in Jesus’ redeeming love.

Originally, the word paradise meant “a garden of delight.” Eventually, it came to mean “the place where God lives.” Where God is, that is paradise.

The Church at Smyrna

Vs. 8-11: These are the words of Him who is the First and the Last, who died and came to life again. I know your afflictions and your poverty- yet you are rich! I know the slander of those who say they are Jews and are not, but are a synagogue of Satan. Do not be afraid of what you are about to suffer. I tell you, the devil will put some of you in prison to test you, and you will suffer persecution for ten days. Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. He who overcomes will not be hurt at all by the second death.

A Little History

Smyrna was a large, beautiful, and proud city. It claimed to be the “glory of Asia.” Like Ephesus, it was a city of wealth and commercial greatness. It was deeply committed to idolatry and the worship of the Roman Emperor.

They had magnificent temples built to Apollo, Aphrodite, Cybele, Asklepios, and Zeus. But the worship of these pagan gods was dying out. Their real focus was on the worship of the Roman Emperor.

When I first read these words, my first thought was how it seems like today’s Christians are falling into this type of trap. I hear more Christians talking about their love, faith, and hope in a political leader (both parties) than they talk about their love, faith, and hope in Jesus. If a politician, on either side, does bad or evil deeds, their followers look away, excuse it away, throw blame to the other side, anything other than acknowledging the person is bad and needs to go. It is as if they worship them.

In 196 B.C., Smyrna built the first temple to Dea Roma – the goddess of Rome, the Roman Empire’s spiritual symbol. Once the “spirit” of Rome was worshipped, it wasn’t much of a step to worship the dead Emperors of Rome. Then it was only another small step to worship the living Emperors and then to demand such worship as evidence of political allegiance and civic pride.

The Roman Emperor Domitian (A.D. 81-96) was the first to demand worship under the title “Lord” from the Roman Empire’s people as a test of political loyalty. According to ancient church history, it was under Domitian’s reign that John was banished to the island of Patmos, where he received this vision.

Emperor worship had begun as a spontaneous demonstration of gratitude to Rome; but toward the end of the first century, in the days of Domitian, the final step was taken and Caesar worship became compulsory. Once a year the Roman citizen must burn a pinch of incense on the altar to the godhead of Caesar, and having done so, he was given a certificate to guarantee that he had performed his religious duty.

Barclay

Jesus Describes Himself

Vs. 8; The First and the Last; This was the title Jesus chose in His initial appearance to John (Rev. 1:11, 1:17) to speak of His eternal character. These are titles that belong only to the Lord, Yahweh. (Is. 41:4, 44:6, 48:12) Who was dead and came to life: Jesus wanted the Christians in Smyrna to be reminded that they served the risen Lord, who was victorious over death. Death could not hold Jesus, and it cannot hold His people. We must let this be a reminder to us today as well.

But You Are Rich

Vs. 9; I know your works: Jesus told the church at Ephesus the same thing. He also told the church at Smyrna; He knows their tribulation and poverty. Jesus knew their hardships both in the sense that He saw what happened to them and by His own personal experience.

Smyrna was a prosperous city. Yet the Christians there were poor. The word used for ‘poverty’ is the word used for abject poverty. The word ‘abject’ means the most miserable, humiliating circumstances imaginable. They were robbed and fired from jobs in persecution for the gospel. This kind of economic persecution was one important reason why the Christians in Smyrna were poor.

Those suffering abject poverty are often faced with finding enough food to eat, clean water, and a warm, dry place to sleep. Early Christians joyfully accepted the plundering of their goods, knowing they have an enduring possession in Heaven. (Heb. 10:34) They were rich despite these conditions. Jesus reminds them of this when He says, Yet you are rich! Our estimation of ourselves is far less important than God’s estimation of us.

We need to be reminded that there is nothing inherently spiritual in being rich, and there is nothing inherently spiritual in poverty. Material riches are an obstacle to the Kingdom of God, one that some do not overcome. (Mark 10:23-25) Often, material riches are acquired and maintained at the expense of true spiritual riches.

A story is told of the glory days of the Renaissance Papacy when a man walked with the Pope and was amazed at the splendors and riches of the Vatican. The Pope said to him, “We no longer have to say what Peter told the lame man: ‘Silver and gold have I none.'” His companion replied, “But neither can you say, ‘rise up and walk.'”

I know the slander of those who say they are Jews and are not, but are a synagogue of Satan. There was a large hostile community of Jews in Smyrna, but this tells us that a true Jew trusts God and believes in Jesus. (Phil. 3:3)

Twice in verse 9, Jesus says, I know. It is easy to think God has forgotten us in the midst of affliction, but He knows, He sees, and He will come and set it all straight. We must be patient and not lose our faith and hope in Him.

Jesus’ Instructions For Smyrna

Vs. 10; Do not fear: Jesus told the Christians in Smyrna to stop being afraid. Some people may think Christians should never be afraid, but this tells us that we are, and Jesus knows it. We are still human, and we still fear. Sometimes we are afraid, but we have some comforting knowledge that others (who do not know Jesus) don’t have.

I know many Christians are living in fear now. The fears depend on which news source they choose to watch. But Jesus is telling us to stop being afraid. Jesus has told us how it will all turn out in the end. When our fears get the best of us, we must turn to Jesus for comfort, to remind us of what is promised for those who believe.

What you are about to suffer: Sometimes, Jesus has a purpose in our suffering, so He allows it. He uses suffering to purify (1 Pet. 1:6-7), to make us more like Him (Rom. 8:17), and make us true witnesses of Him.

God allowed this attack on Smyrna so that they may be tested, in the sense of being proven. God displayed the true riches of Smyrna’s church to everyone – including themselves – through their suffering.

They were tested and passed the test. This is the only church of the seven that has no evil spoken against it. Only this church, among the seven, survives today, and it has survived through centuries of Roman and Muslim persecution.

We may never have to face the same kind of suffering the Christians in Smyrna did, but we can have their same heart. We may never have to die a martyr’s death, but we can live a martyr’s life. Many Christians avoid persecutions of any kind by conforming so much to the world that they are no longer set apart as Christians.

This ‘tribulation’ does not mean the common trials to which all flesh is heir. Some dear souls think they are bearing their cross every time they have a headache. The tribulation mentioned here is trouble they would not have had if they had not been Christians.

Vance Havner

Be faithful until death: Most of us will not have to face a martyr’s death, but no matter the suffering we endure because of our beliefs, we must be faithful until our death. We should expect some amount of suffering as Christians. We will come into some degree of conflict with worldly views, and that is going to, on occasion, cause some degree of suffering. Suffering is the logical result of anyone who will be committed to Christ. God does not always remove us from the suffering, but He always walks with us as we go through it. All we need to do is remain faithful.

Reward For Faithfulness

And I will give you the crown of life: Jesus gave them some encouragement to remain faithful. There are two different words for “crown” in the ancient Greek language. One, Diadema, describes the kind of crown a king would wear, a crown of royalty. This word is used only three times in the New Testament, and all three are in the book of Revelation. The other kind used in this verse is Stephanos; is given as a trophy to a winning athlete. Jesus told the Christians of Smyrna; they deserve a trophy. And it would be an exceptional trophy indeed, the crown of life.

In verse 11, Jesus again ends His letter to Smyrna as He did in His letter to Ephesus. For any who have an ear to hear what the Spirit is saying to the churches. However, this letter to the Christians in Smyrna may apply least of all to modern western Christians. We don’t face the kind of persecution the Christians of Smyrna did. (The story of Polycarp, a Christian martyr in Smyrna, is remarkable. I encourage you to take the time t0 read it. Just do a Google search).

Nevertheless, the day of martyrs is definitely not past. All over the world, Christians face persecution, especially in Asia, Eastern Europe, and the Muslim world. Some estimate that more Christians have suffered and died for their faith in the 20th Century than in all previous centuries combined.

He who overcomes will not be hurt at all by the second death: Those who overcome, those who remain faithful until death, will never be hurt by the second death. The second death is hell, the lake of fire (Rev. 20:14; 21:8).

All men die, but all are not killed with death…Oh, it is a woeful thing to be killed with death.

John Trapp

Letter to Pergamos

A Little Pergamos History

Pergamos is present-day Bergama in Turkey. It was the political capital of the Roman Province of Asia. When John wrote Revelation, Pergamos had been the capital city for more than 300 years. It was a noted center for culture and education, having one of the ancient world’s great libraries with more than 200,000 volumes.

They were also an extremely religious city, with temples to the Greek and Roman gods. There were three temples dedicated to the worship of the Roman Emperor. Pergamos was especially known as a center for the worship of the deity know as Asclepios.

Represented by a serpent, Asclepios was the god of healing and knowledge. There was a medical school in the temple. This was a big draw for the sick and diseased people from all over the Roman Empire.

The sick were allowed to spend the night in the temple where snakes were allowed to live. It was believed the touch from one of these snakes would bring health and healing.

Sharp Double-Edged Sword

Vs 12: And unto the angel of the church in Pergamos write: These are the words of Him who has the sharp, double-edged sword.

We learned in Rev. 1:16; John observed: “out of His mouth came a double-edged sword.” Now, He will show this sword to the Christians of Pergamos, and they are going to feel it. He is about to confront them with His word, and it will be painful for them.

What They Had Right

Vs. 13: I know your works and where you live – where Satan has his throne. Yet you remain true to my name. You did not renounce your faith in me, even in the days of Antipas, my faithful witness, who was put to death in your city – where Satan lives.

I know your works: Jesus said this to each church. He knows all of our works, even if there isn’t much to know.

Pergamos was a stronghold of satanic power. Jesus tells them He knows this, and He also knows they have held fast to His name. Despite the fact they lived in such a horrible place, they did not deny His name.

A Faithful Witness

Antipas“: This is the only time Antipas was mentioned in the Bible. History tells us nothing about him. Jesus called him a faithful witness, the same thing He said about Himself in Rev. 1:5. Antipas was a man that followed Jesus and was like Jesus.

In classical Greek, martus never means martyr in our sense of the term. It always means witness. A martus was one who said, ‘this is true, and I know it.’ It is not until New Testament times that martus ever means martyr.

But in Antipas’ case, he was a martus/witness and a martyr because he was put to death because of his witnessing. He may not have been world-famous or, for that matter, famous even in his own town, but Jesus knew him and did not overlook him.

It is much no ecclesiastical history makes mention of this martyr Antipas, which argues him to have been a person but of obscure note in the world; but Christ seeth and taketh notice of those little ones who belong to him, though the world overlooks them.

Matthew Poole

Antipas means “Against All.” He lived where Satan’s throne was and stood against the attacks and the evil all around him. And by doing so, he fulfilled the meaning of his name.

I am a martus because I say, ‘ this is true, and I know it.’ If you can say the same, then so are you.

What Jesus Had Against Them

Vs. 14-15: Nevertheless, I have a few things against you: You have people there who hold to the teachings of Balaam, who taught Balak to entice the Israelites to sin by eating food sacrificed to idols and by committing sexual immorality. Likewise, you also have those who hold to the teachings of the Nicolaitans.

Jesus praised them first for the things they had right, but at the same time, their difficult situation did not excuse the things they had wrong. This is something we need to apply to our own life situations. All of us face difficult times. The difficulties vary, but they are still difficult for us none the less. Even with life’s difficulties, we are expected to stand on our faith and belief in Jesus and do the right thing. Our hardships, difficulties, or any stumbling blocks we may face will not excuse bad behavior in the end.

Balaam was a prototype of all corrupt teachers. (Num. 22-24 & 31) It combined the sins of immorality and idolatry to please Balak, the king of Moab because he could not curse Israel directly. He taught Balak to put a stumbling block before Israel’s children by enticing them to eat food sacrificed to idols and committing sexual immorality.

So, the Christians in Pergamos had tendencies toward idolatry and immorality. Sexual immorality marked the whole culture of the Roman Empire. It was taken for granted, and the person who lived by Biblical standards of purity was considered strange.

The Christians of Pergamos were like the Christians of Corinth. Paul wrote to Corinth about this in 1 Cor. 5:1-9. “…Don’t you know that a little yeast works through the whole batch of dough?” vs. 6. As Christians, we are not to judge those outside the church but those within (1 Cor. 5:12). The Christians of Pergamos had become too accepting and tolerant of false doctrines and immoral living within their church, and Jesus rebuked them for it.

Applying The Word In 2020

Christians today have forgotten that sexual immorality means more than one thing. The sexual immorality, spoken of in Paul’s letter to the church at Corinth, was to do with a man sleeping with his father’s wife.

Incest, pedophilia, and adultery are running rampant in our churches, and a blind eye is being turned to it. Jesus’ rebuke to the church of Pergamos was not only to the Christians participating in the immorality but to the Christians who were allowing it to continue. Those Christians will be held just as accountable.

Lieff Cabraser Heimann & Bernstein Attorney at Law (from their website)

Evangelical Church Child Abuse Cases

Many Southern Baptists have dismissed sexual abuse as a problem caused by “corrupt Hollywood” or “liberal theology’, but that’s just untrue, and a reckoning has arrived.

Lieff Cabraser is investigating reports of widespread child abuse in evangelical churches, Southern Baptist churches, and so-called Mega Churches. Nearly 400 Southern Baptist leaders, from youth pastors to top ministers, have pleaded guilty or been convicted of sex crimes against more than 700 hundred victims since 1998, according to a recent investigation by The Houston Chronicle and The San Antonio Express-News. Superstar pastors like Bill Hybels and Andy Savage have been forced to resign over allegations of misconduct. The New York Times also published a recent expose on the “sexual abuse crisis” at evangelical churches.

While some churches have apologized for the abuse, few victims have seen any restitution or justice. What’s more, many churches work to protect themselves against their parishioners’ interests, and those victims who do seek justice or even just protection find themselves faced with aggressive legal maneuvering from the churches, many of which use written membership agreements to enforce silence and prohibit any public investigation.

From NBCNEWS.COM

Almost 1,700 priests and clergy accused of sex abuse are unsupervised. An Associated Press investigation found that those credibly accused are now teachers, coaches, counselors, and live near playgrounds.

The majority of people listed as credibly accused were never criminally prosecuted for the abuse allegations when they were part of the church. That lack of criminal history has revealed a sizable gray area that state licensing boards and background check services are not designed to handle as former priests seek new employment, apply to be foster parents, and live in communities unaware of their presence and their pasts.

You can find the entire article, posted on Oct. 4, 2019, by Claudia Lauer and Meghan Hoyer, both with Associated Press, at nbcnews.com.

What Jesus Wants Them To Do

Vs. 16: Repent! Otherwise, I will soon come to you and will fight against them with the sword of my mouth.

Christians are not only called to repent when they first come to Christ. We are to repent always when we are doing anything unpleasing to God. Remember, repent is an action word. To repent, we must stop what we are doing and change course. If we do not repent, Jesus will deal with us by His Word, a sharp double-edged sword, and we will feel the pain.

A White Stone

Vs. 17: “…I will also give him a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to him who receives it.”

In the ancient world, jurors in court cases indicated the verdicts they reached by depositing pebbles or stones in receptacles. This practice continued into the days of ancient Rome. A dark stone reflected a “guilty” verdict, while a white stone meant a “not guilty” verdict.

To the Christians who resisted Satan’s temptations, this was a symbolic way for Jesus to speak of their justification. Jesus declared these Christians as “not guilty” of sin.

On the stone will be written a new name, known only to him who receives it. When we arrive in Heaven, we will receive a new name. This shows what an intimate relationship we have with God. He has personally named us. This new name assures us of our destination. We have a reservation with our name on it.

This name will only be known by him who receives it: Maybe, when we see our new name, only we will understand the meaning or reason behind it. Other than Jesus, of course.

Letter To Thyatira

Thyatira was the smallest and least important of the seven cities Jesus addresses in His letters to the churches. History has no record of Thyatira Christians suffering any significant political or religious persecution.

The city was a center of active trade guilds, each having their own patron deity from the Greek and Roman pantheon of gods. Acts 16:14-15 mentions Lydia of Thyatira, who was a seller of purple cloth. Thyatira was famous for the manufacture of purple dye. It possessed more trade guilds than any other town of its size in Asia.

Vs. 18-19: These are the words of the Son of God, whose eyes are like blazing fire and whose feet are like burnished bronze. I know your deeds, your love and faith, your service and perseverance, and that you are now doing more than you did at first.

Jesus first describes Himself as the Son of God to emphasize His deity. In Rev. 1:14, He says His eyes are like “flames of fire.” He repeats it here to emphasize the idea. His eyes look with penetrating judgment.

In Rev. 1:15, Jesus says His feet are like fine brass. He repeats it here to emphasize His purity. Brass is pure and highly refined in the fire. It also emphasizes His steadfastness because brass was the strongest known metal in the ancient world. To have feet like fine brass would be strong and unmovable.

Jesus also tells Thyatira’s church, like He told the other churches, He knows their works. Thyatira may have been the least significant of the seven churches Jesus addresses, but they were not hidden from Him.

In many ways, the church at Thyatira was a model church. They had love, service, faith, and patience. As for their works, the last are more than the first. So, not only did they have good works, but they were increasing in measure with time. They were growing and maturing.

What Jesus Had Against Them

Vs. 20-21: Nevertheless, I have this against you: You tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess. By her teaching, she misleads my servants into sexual immorality and the eating of food sacrificed to idols. I have given her time to repent of her immorality, but she is unwilling.

Despite all their good, Jesus was not completely pleased with the church at Thyatira. They tolerated that woman Jezebel. This may not have been her literal name, but clearly a self-styled prophetess within the church, after Jezebel’s pattern in the Old Testament (1 Kings 16-21, 2 Kings 9:30-37).

Jesus called her Jezebel because the name had a powerful association. If we call someone a Benedict, a Judas, or a Hitler, it means something strong. It was also a strong thing for Jesus to call this woman a Jezebel.

She was one of the most evil characters of the Old Testament, who attempted to combine the worship of Israel with the worship of the idol of Baal….Jezebel herself had a most unenviable record of evil.

Dr. John F. Walvoord

The woman Jesus called Jezebel claimed to be a prophetess but really wasn’t. Yet, Thyatira’s Christians received her as such, and that is why they received this warning from Him. This wasn’t His first warning.

Then many false prophets will rise up and deceive many.

Jesus, Matthew 24:11

As already mentioned, there were strong trade guilds in Thyatira. The sexual immorality and eating of things sacrificed to idols were probably connected with the guilds’ mandatory social occasions. “The draw to the guilds were powerful because no merchant or trader could hope to prosper or make money unless he was a member of the guild.” (Barclay)

One ancient Christian named Tertullian wrote about Christians who made their living in trades in pagan idolatry. A painter might find work in pagan temples, or a sculptor might be hired to make a statue of a pagan god. They would justify this by saying, “This is my living, and I must live.” Tertullian replied, Vivere ergo habes? “Must you live?”

Jezebel’s Sin Was Especially Terrible

Because Jezebel corrupted His servants, that is what made her sin especially wicked. Jesus’ servants belong to Him, and He gets pretty bent about someone who corrupts them and leads them into sin. In the book of Mark 9:42, He tells us how angry it makes Him, “But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea.”

But even as grievous as Jezebel’s sin was Jesus, gave her time to repent, but she did not. She rejected the work of the Holy Spirit, calling her to repentance. This shows the mercy of our Savior towards us sinners.

In all of His messages to the churches, Jesus told them what He had against them and allowed them to repent and fix the problem. But our time to repent is not limitless. There is coming a time when Jesus’ spirit will not strive with us forever (Gen. 6:3). When Jesus tells us to repent, we must not tarry.

What Jesus Has Planned for Jezebel

Vs. 22-25: So I will cast her on a bed of suffering, and I will make those who commit adultery with her suffer intensely unless they repent of their ways. I will strike her children dead. Then all the churches will know that I am He who searches hearts and minds, and I will repay each of you according to your deeds. Now I say to the rest of you in Thyatira, to you who do not hold to her teaching and have not learned Satan’s so-called deep secrets, I will not impose any other burden on you. Only hold on to what you have until I come.

Before Jesus tells them what they must do, He first tells them what He will do. He will make Jezebel and her followers suffer. The reference to adultery is important. It spoke of spiritual and sexual adultery. When these Christians honored other gods, they were unfaithful to their Savior.

He will cast her on a bed of suffering. What is a bed of suffering? It could be an image of affliction, or it could be a literal sickness. We know from passages such as 1 Cor. 11:30 that God can use sickness as a way to chastise His people when they are in sin.

He will strike her children dead. All people die, but not all people are dead when they die. This kind of “dead” only happens to those whose sentence is hell. Unless they repent, Jesus tells them this will be their fate.

The purpose of this chastisement was to bring about repentance. But it was also to give an example of His holiness to other churches: and all the churches shall know that I am He who searches the minds and hearts.

In the ancient Jews’ mind, the heart was the place of intellect, and the kidneys were the place of emotion. Minds and hearts are literally “hearts and kidneys” Jesus was saying, I know your every thought and emotion.

For Those Who Didn’t Follow Jezebel

These burdens will not be imposed on those that didn’t follow Jezebel. Jesus only had one instruction for them. They are to hold on to what they have. They must not stop doing what is good and continue just as they are. They must, we must, not become distracted or discouraged from what Jesus wants us to be and to do. He tells them they must carry on until He comes, so must we.

A Message For All Christians

Vs. 26-29: To him who overcomes and does my will till the end, I will give authority over the nations – He will rule them with an iron scepter; he will dash them to pieces like pottery – just as I have received authority from my Father. I will also give him the morning star. He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.

For those of us who overcome until the end, Jesus will give us authority over the nations. Jesus quotes from the Old Testament, Psalm 2:9. This shows His authority when He will rule over the earth.

This should bring Christians joy and hope when all around us, even within the church, is immorality and idolatry. We are on the winning team! Jesus will be our reward, our morning star.

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The Story Of My Healing

The Hard Asks

Has God ever asked you to do something that you truly did not want to do? For me, this was one of those asks. I began this in October of last year (2020). Today is February 3rd, 2021. I’ve prayed and prayed over this. I’ve asked God to give me a sign or anything to let me know for sure this is what He wants me to do. He’s given me multiple, but again I would ask, are You sure? This reminded me of Gideon (Judges 6-8). I knew it’s what God was asking of me. I just wanted that guarantee, which is what Gideon was seeking.

God has been most patient with me. But today, while reading Daniel 5, He let me know that it is time to do as He asks. It is time I humble myself, read the writing on the wall, and honor the God who holds, in His hand, my life and all my ways.

Then to drive the message home, to make double sure I understood, He had me flip the page. I didn’t have to turn the page, Dan. 5 ended on page 964, but God wanted me to read what was on page 966; I want to share what I read with you.

Bold Service

No matter what painful experiences we undergo, we must continue to pursue servanthood in a manner reflecting the boldness of Christ. To bear witness against injustice, inhumanity, and other aspects of our brokenness in a darkened world, we need to develop this quality of Christlike boldness in our thoughts and actions.

Boldness has a refreshingly honest and direct simplicity to it. Neither aggressive nor obnoxious, bold servants simply, quietly, and effectively work to alleviate suffering in the most forthright method available. There are no hidden meanings behind their words. There are no half-measures taken either. Boldness is an all-or-nothing phenomenon, for bold servants have grown in their relationship with God enough to take risks in spite of the fear of involvement they feel. Acknowledging the specific ways the Lord wants them to serve, bold disciples of Christ opt for decisive rather than hesitant thoughts and for daring rather than timid actions.

Boldness erases the limits we allow fear to place on our ability to serve. With boldness, we not only see but act from the belief that everyone we meet is our brother and sister in the family of God, deserving of respect, of dignity, of compassion, of giving. With boldness, we place the welfare of others before our own. With boldness, the unwanted and unloved become wanted and loved by us. With boldness, we refuse to hesitate for fear that we may be opposed, we may suffer, we may be rejected, we may offend, we may be in danger.

Having surrendered ourselves to God, we dare to become Christ’s “slave to all” by letting God use us boldly in Christian service.

Author: Judith Lechman

And with that, my answer to the “big ask” is, yes Lord, I will do as you’ve asked.

Our Children

Jesus Loves Them

Jesus had a lot to say about His little children. He made it very clear we are not to do them any harm. He said there is a special punishment for those who do. I think He is pretty serious about it. He speaks of this special punishment three different times in the New Testament. (Matt. 18:6 & 10; Luke 17:2)

There are two ways to look at these verses. Either Jesus was talking about any child or His believers, which He calls His children. Either way, Jesus made it clear we are not to cause them to stumble. Any child could be caused to stumble because of abuse, and a child of God can be caused to stumble because of abuse.

Do no harm. Is that even possible? Do any of us reach adulthood and leave behind a childhood that was absent of harm? I suppose some lucky few have skated through childhood unscathed by the wickedness of this world. But I speculate it’s a tiny percentage that does.

Even if you are one of the rare few that had a harmless childhood, the odds are that you’ve suffered some pain or abuse as an adult. Either way, if we don’t face our demons, our past can and will negatively affect our lives if we don’t find healing.

Variances Of Harm

There have been a couple of times when someone has shared with me their personal story of sorrow and suffering, and I’ve caught myself thinking, ‘that’s it? You don’t even know sorrow.’ But Jesus has taught me over the past 20 years; I don’t know sorrow.

Yes, there are variances of harm. There are even variances in the same type of harm. Some people walk this world carrying some heavy, burdensome baggage that an adult handed them as a small child to tote through the rest of their lives. Or maybe, some other child, who was being harmed in their own home or elsewhere, handed it to them. Either way, abuse, left unchecked, leads to the abuse of others.

I am in no way and by no means suggesting that every abused child grows up to be an abusive person in the sense that a molested child will become a molester or a beaten child will beat their own children, etc. Abuse doesn’t always morph into the same shape every time.

Many Forms Of Abuse

I’m not going into the details of the actual abuse. I will find no peace by calling out the names of my abusers. However, there is peace to be found in the telling. There is peace in fighting off your demons. Lifting the rock, they hide under and shining the light of truth on their dark lies will make them scatter like the creepy vile bugs they are. But the truth is not always so easy to come by, especially when we face our inner reality.

I have chosen not to share details of the abuse with you, not out of shame, but because this is not the place to share such things. We shouldn’t ever believe that laying out all the dirty bits to anybody that will listen is beneficial to our healing. Our stories should be shared at the right time, in the right place, and with the right people. Those we know we can trust. Believe it or not, we shouldn’t trust everyone just because they say they’re a Christian. Even Christians do bad things.

Another reason I’m not going to linger on the abuse is because abuse comes in so many forms. Our stories may be similar, but that doesn’t mean we were affected the same or that we dealt with it the same. It could be that our stories are polar, but the abuse, in whatever form it was in, affected us the same. The point is whatever terrible thing you have experienced, whether as a child or an adult, if you’re reading this, I want you to know you can find healing and peace in the same way I have.

My Story

Everyone Has One

My story will be just a little of what happened to me and a lot of what happened afterward.

By the time I was twelve, nine different people had touched me inappropriately. None of which were blood relatives. All of them were a one-time incident except for the last. It extended over two years, from age 10-12, and ultimately ended with rape. That’s it, the sum of my childhood trauma.

Two of the times were by other children, one about the same age as me and one a teenager whose parents were friends of my parents. Two of the times were by brothers of my friends, who they were also molesting. One was a stepfather of a friend, who he was molesting as well. Two were friends of my older sibling. Two married into my family. All of this happened before 7th grade.

Looking back on many of my friends after elementary school, I now realize that I was probably not the only one living with secrets like these, but by junior high, we had learned not to talk to each other about it.

I told an adult two of the times. Neither time had pleasant outcomes, so I didn’t tell anymore. Well, not until I was an adult myself.

And Then, What?

Aftermath

After the rape, the abuse ended. Just like that, it was over. At the time, I figured it was because everything I had to offer was taken, and I was of no use anymore. I learned years later the true reason. In part, it was what I had imagined; I no longer had anything left to take. But the sick truth is the abuser was finished with me and had moved on to find untarnished prey in a 5-year-old child.

The ending wasn’t something I was sad to see; I couldn’t have been more glad for it to be over. Years later, however, when I learned the truth of how the ending of a nightmare for me meant the beginning of one for someone else I loved very much and never even imagined that it was happening to, put guilt so heavily on my shoulders it was almost too much, especially added to the guilt I felt over what happened to me. But for the eight years that I was ignorant of what was happening to this person, I thanked God for it being over. I stuffed it way down deep and moved on. Unfortunately, my compass was broken, and I moved in all the wrong directions. For years of my life, I sank deeper and deeper.

At age 12, I was already drinking liquor. Some may ask where a 12-year-old could get alcohol—lots of ways. For me, it came by way of an older sibling. In my early teen years, my friends would steal it from their parents. At age 16, my best friend and cousin, who was 21—a lot of what we would do when we were together involved drinking.

Your Voice Is Silenced

After the rape, I so desperately wanted to tell someone, but it wasn’t a story I could tell, not even to my sisters or cousins. So, at the wise old age of thirteen, I chose to have sex so I could feel able to tell my cousin that I wasn’t a virgin anymore. But to have the courage to execute my plan, I had to drink the courage. Until I married the man I am married to now, I was never sober the first time I was with anyone sexually. To feel like I could talk to someone about what happened to me, I felt the need to create a woven truth with the threads of lies.

At age fifteen, I was pregnant. I chose to abort my child out of pure fear, fear of what this child would have to endure and suffer by having a mom who was so mentally sick; fear of being fifteen and alone to raise this child, the dad wanted no part of it—so many worries.

After the abortion, I got worse, so much worse. I was only in tenth grade, and I was getting blackout drunk regularly. I had boyfriends, but never just one, and my boyfriends never had just one girlfriend. They mistreated me, and I mistreated them.

My out-of-control behavior carried on through the rest of high school and beyond. When I was eighteen, my cousin/best friend died driving while intoxicated. Six months after her death, I totaled my car driving drunk. By the grace of God, my passenger nor I received injuries, not even a scratch. The car flipped at least three times and landed dead center of the roof on top of a downed tree. One week later, I got arrested for public intoxication.

None of this deterred my self-sabotaging behavior. I continued to abuse myself and others, whether intentional or not. After I wrecked my car, I lost my job because I had no transportation. Which meant I could no longer afford to live on my own. I flopped around from friend to friend for a while until I wore out my welcome then I moved back in with my parents. I was there about six months when I met someone who had a place to live and a car. Unmarried to him, I moved in, but this made some people in my life unhappy, so I married him. I got a job, and as soon as I had a car of my own and enough money to leave, I left. I married him on my twentieth birthday and divorced before my twenty-first. Before I turned 21, it came to light what my abuser had been doing the last several years, and I spoke my truth for the first time.

I lived alone, except for a couple of bizarre housemates, for two years when I met someone at a bar. He was as wild, out of control, full of anger, and as damaged as I was. Two years into our tumultuous relationship, I got pregnant.

The Healing Begins

But First A Little Back Story

There was a time, at an earlier age, that I intended to end my life. On a night in, whatever month Brickfest falls on, I found myself, at age 14, in my cousin’s apartment by myself, so I decided to drink, ALONE. There is a reason for the saying “never drink alone,” and after this particular evening, I never did again. I didn’t merely drink a little; I drank a lot, and the more I drank, the sadder I became, and the more miserable I became, the less I wanted to live. So in a drunken stupor and the depths of despair, I took bottles of pills from her cabinet, poured them into neat little piles, and began swallowing them by the handful. I tripped over something and made a loud noise. Her housemate, who I had no idea was in the apartment, was asleep upstairs; the noise woke her. She didn’t know I was there either and came to see what the racket was. She found me on the floor with piles of pills still on the table. Of course, she began to panic. She asked how many I had taken, but I couldn’t say. She picked up the phone to call 911 when she saw one of the empty bottles on the floor. She put the phone down and started picking up all the bottles. They were all vitamins! I tried to end it all, WITH VITAMINS!

I find that story a tad humorous now, but that doesn’t mean I don’t see the tragedy in it also. I’m sharing it with you because nine years had passed, and I had gotten no better. I was now 24, unmarried, living with a man, and all we are doing together was drinking. When I was drunk, I could laugh, and laughing felt good, but inside I was dying, and I did not want to live anymore.

I had been calling on God to help me for so long; I had given up hope that He even existed. I felt if there wasn’t a God, then all of this is pointless, useless, hopeless, unbearable, unliveable. I wanted to die, and I was going to make it happen. I just hadn’t figured out how. But while plotting my own death, I discovered I was pregnant.

There was never a second that abortion went through my mind. I knew from the first second I saw the positive sign on the pregnancy test that I would have a baby. With or without anyone’s blessing because I knew it was a gift from God, who I thought I no longer believed existed. Now there was no way I would take my own life. This baby, this gift from God, literally saved my life.

Baby Steps

One morning when my son was about 6 months old, I woke up with a terrible hangover and extremely late for a significant event. I jumped out of bed and pulled myself together as I rushed out the door. I made the event, but I’m sure people knew the reason for my tardiness. On that day, I realized if I continued on the path I was on, I would damage my child just as I had been damaged, maybe even more. I resolved to make some changes.

I had been giving much thought to God, so when a friend asked if there was anything she could do for me, instead of saying, “no, I’m fine,” I said, “yes, I would like a Bible.” She gifted me a Bible on November 2, 1992, and it was the second step in saving my life. I still have that Bible, it is well worn, tattered, marked up, and a little torn, but I love it and use it almost daily.

It Doesn’t Just Go Away

It took me almost a year to read the Bible, cover to cover. After completing it, I found a church to attend, and I loved it and all the people in it. I was teaching Sunday School lessons to the 2 & 3-year-old age group. I rarely, if ever, thought of anything from my past. If it crept into my mind, I shut it out, telling myself I was over that.

By appearances, I was over it. I went to barber school, opened a salon, and married my son’s dad. Ten years had passed. I had made real friends, and my life felt OK. But the truth was I was struggling; my marriage was awful. The church I loved had made some changes, so I was hopping from church to church, not finding where I belonged. My church attendance was sketchy at best. And I did still drink on occasions when coping became too hard. Then my dad died.

Triggers

I learned about triggers later, when I finally got counseling, but at the time, I couldn’t figure out why my dad’s death hit me so profoundly. Drinking became a problem for me again. Self-sabotaging habits came back to life. After a night of drinking, I awoke with zero memory of the night before and knew I was in serious shape. I needed help. The next Sunday, I went to church. The third step in saving my life.

Church itself did not save my life but two people who, on this particular day, played a significant role in the journey to my healing. Two women who didn’t belong to this specific church came to tell the stories of their abortions. I knew they were there for me. God did this because I asked for help and didn’t know where to find it; He led me there. They said they would return on Tuesday night to talk again with the church’s women’s ministry. I went.

After the group dispersed, I followed the woman outside and spoke to her. And so began my journey to healing. I met with them in one of their homes once a week for many weeks. These women listened to me, understood me, related to me, cried with me and most importantly prayed with me. I will never forget them and will be forever grateful for their sacrifice.

In working through the guilt, shame, and damage the abortion caused, I realized I needed to find healing from the sex abuse. I honestly can not remember how I connected with Teen Challenge, but I did nonetheless and went through a group program they offered. Afterward, I got certified as a Teen Challenge counselor and volunteered at a local non-profit Crisis Pregnancy Center and took other sex abuse survivors through the program. Also, I spoke at churches, fundraisers, and the capital state-building.

I felt good about myself, I believe, for the first time in my life, but my marriage was still in shambles. So, I sought counsel for that purpose; marriage counseling doesn’t work when you do it alone. In our case, it wouldn’t have made a difference, for we shouldn’t have married in the first place. After twenty years together, we finally parted ways.

What God Taught Me Through The Pain

To Hear His Voice

Through my journey, I would often pray but then seek counsel from people in my life. What I thought God was saying to me, most times, did not match up with their advice. It seemed logical that they would better grasp what God would want since I seemed to always struggle with “living the Christian life.” I blame no one but myself for my decisions, but because of my lack of faith that He could genuinely hear me or that He genuinely cared, I took the advice of some very well-meaning but very wrong people.

As time passed and I continued to read my Bible, pray, and wait on Him, whether I was in church or not, I learned to differentiate His voice from the voice of others. If you seek Him, He will show Himself and make Himself be known. (Jer. 29.12-14; Matt. 7:7; Deut. 4:29; 1 Chron. 22:19; 28:9; Isaiah 45:19; Jer. 24:7; Amos 5:4) He taught me that I am but one person in a sea of people, but He still hears me, knows me, and all my life circumstances. What He says to me may not line up with other’s preconceived ideas of who He is or how He thinks or works. When I seek counsel from my Savior, and He gives me a clear answer, I have learned to seek no more counsel.

Learning to hear and trust God when He speaks to me was a lesson I had to learn the hard way. It’s what, I feel, they weren’t preaching in church. Maybe they were, but I wasn’t grasping it yet. Perhaps, this is why I felt the need to pull away from attending organized religion, to block out all outside interference so that the only voice I could hear was His. I needed to learn to seek Him with all my heart and all my soul. Also, I needed to know that He searches every heart and understands the intent of every thought—even mine.

Truths About Myself

Having the courage to look at yourself and your own heart instead of exclusively focusing on what others have done to you and how you might need to guard against them takes hard work.

Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it. My all-time favorite pastor said that in one of his sermons. I thought it was great and wrote it in the back of my Bible. It’s another lesson I’ve had to learn the hard way. I spent so much time and energy reacting to what had happened. But all my reactions were based on lies from the enemy of my soul. I reacted in anger, self-pity, hatred (of others & myself), shame, fear, disbelief, and despair. But, had I fully grasped God and His magnificent love for me, would I have reacted any differently? The answer is yes.

One truth about myself that I needed to come to terms with, 90% of what was wrong in my life, was my reaction to 10% of what happened to me. It was my choice. It was me who rejected the truths of my Savior but listened to the lies of my enemy. It was me who hurt myself and others. Yes, what happened was horrible; yes, it scarred and damaged me, but had I listened to my Savior’s voice, my Healer, my Redeemer; my healing would have come much quicker.

I used to believe that all abused people react the same. That their lives reflect their damaged hearts, and for the most part, I have been correct. I do not mean they all made the same choices or mistakes I made, but that I could tell there is a certain sadness about them, a struggle within, something that’s robbing them of the abundant life that Jesus promises every believer.

The odds of surviving childhood abuse without any long-term adverse effects are slim. With counseling and positive reinforcements, odds become greater, but a child with a real grasp on Jesus, His love and forgiveness, can and will recover without life-altering long-term damage. I used to believe this wasn’t possible until I watched it happen with my own two eyes.

The Kingdom of God Belongs To Such As These

I want to share a little about how one child’s faith impacted me more than anything God has shown me in the last ten years and how it changed what I believe in such a way it’s hard to explain. I’ve known her since she was a child (she is a grown woman now); I recently reached out to ask for her permission to share this tiny portion of her story with you.

She was nothing but the picture-perfect example of a healthy young girl. She was involved and active in many things. There was nothing about her, in any way, that signaled someone was abusing her. After she graduated high school, she came by for haircuts, so I regularly talked with her. Everything about her seemed normal and right. She eventually went to college, so I didn’t see her very much and then, not at all.

I can’t recall how much time had passed since I last saw her when I received a call. The caller was delivering the most horrifying news. This sweet, outgoing, picture-perfect example of a healthy, productive child had been walking through fire without the knowledge of anyone in her life. I suspected the perpetrator and even spoke to my husband about it but brushed it off as; ‘I was reading more into something than I should have been.’ But as far as she was concerned, there were no signals.

I’ve been keeping up with her through Facebook posts, some years have passed, and she appears to be right as rain. I’m not suggesting that this didn’t hurt or cause her pain; there is no way it couldn’t have. Something caused her to reach out to someone, to use her voice to break the silence.

I should not even guess at what she’s been through or how it affected her, but what I do know, what I saw, was a child that never doubted her Savior. She never lost faith. She became more vocal about Jesus and what He’s done for her. Her Facebook posts humbled me to the point of feeling shame because of my weak faith compared to hers. Plus, I have lived two lifetimes to her one. Shouldn’t I have learned more and have a stronger faith than a child? Healing takes time, sometimes years, sometimes a lifetime. She may very well find herself at a crossroads someday, but if she continues to walk in the faith she has exhibited so far, she will choose the right road. Currently, the road she picked has led her to another country, where she is doing mission work, caring for children, and showing them how much Jesus loves them.

If you recall, (from way up at the beginning) I’m reading the book of Daniel. As I was reading chapter 5, God brought this child and her story to my mind. I finally understood the type of faith it takes to be thrown in a furnace and emerge without even a singed hair. I finally grasped the type of unwavering trust it requires to be thrown in a den of lions and ascend with not even a scratch. When I read Luke 18:17, I finally understand. It takes faith like a little child, faith like Daniel.

Daniel is one of the few well-known Bible characters about whom nothing negative is ever written. Daniel’s faith never wavered, no matter the trials life threw at him. It’s a scarce kind of faith. I feel honored that God has allowed me to know her and witness her faith in action.

Lies and Truth

In many ways, if left in the dark, abuse can damage families, churches, schools, friendships, and marriages, to name a few, for generations to come. These are the obvious and most immediate damages caused by abuse. But there are deeper wounds; they aren’t as easy to see. Some are so deep only God can see them, and only God can heal them.

Most of us would agree that sexual abuse or any abuse of a child is bad. Sexual abuse is a felony in all fifty states. When we hear of it occurring in a child’s life that we know, we are shocked and offended. We call it wrong and evil. This is true and right, but if we stop there, we miss the bigger picture. We miss the source of the abuse.

One of the most damaging results of sexual abuse is how it deceives and confuses victims and those who are perpetrators or silent witnesses. It stops the ability to discern good from evil. It blurs the mind, so that truth and lies get all mixed up.

To be sane means to live in accord with reality, with the truth. Good and evil are both real and genuine. Many of us live out of only one or the other.

God is truth. He has called us for it, and we are to seek His truth with all our hearts and souls. We all have been, intentionally or not, taught things that were woven with the threads of lies. We live our lives based on those lies until God uses some means to expose them and teach us His truth instead.

Scripture also tells us that God is light. The outcome of His light in our lives is goodness, righteousness, and truth (Eph. 5:-9). Anything- no matter where we find it- that does not bear such fruit, is not of God. Even more important, lies, deceit, and evil do not come to us just from people who “couldn’t help it” or “don’t know better” or “didn’t mean it” or “were a little drunk” or anything else we might choose to call it. Jesus tells us that lies, deceit, and evil come to us from the enemy of our souls, the father of lies. Jesus says this about the deceiver: “He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies” (John 8:44).

Diane Mandt Landberg, PH.D/ On the Threshold of Hope

To reverse the damages of abuse is to battle with the forces of hell. It’s a hard battle. We are too small to fight such a battle alone. It can’t be won without the exchange of lies for truth. God is light, and truth is at the core of who He is. Anything that is not true is not of God. The battle for truth cannot be won without Him. So when we pretend, minimize, and deny truth, we are not in the light.

The Deeper Wounds

Abuse damages our bodies, our emotions, our thinking, our relationships, (not just the romantic ones) and our spirits. To be abused is to be touched by evil. Like good, evil has impact. It affects each of its victims differently, some more profoundly than others. There are a number of factors that contribute to the effect of sexual abuse. No two people are alike.

No matter how deep the wounds run, there is hope for healing. It’s a process; growth and learning are lifetime things. There is hope; all is not lost. A life with joy, happiness, filled with healthy relationships, feelings of purpose, and usefulness can be yours because there is a Redeemer. I know this because my life has been redeemed.

Out Of The Fire

You can never make anything in your life work that God did not intend to be there in the first place. You can spend ten, twenty, thirty years or a lifetime trying to make a lie become the truth, and it never will. I spent the last ten years of my marriage working on healing from the aftermath of abuse. But I was living in an abusive relationship and God did not want me to stay.

It was so painful at times I didn’t think I would be able to see it through. There were times I thought the healing was complete, but life’s circumstances and my reaction to them told me it wasn’t. Many times I felt as if there was no evidence of change in my life at all.

The last three years of my marriage, every time I prayed about it, the only response I would hear was ‘just leave,’ but I could not believe I was hearing God correctly. I went through marriage counseling and two different Christian-based marriage classes alone. I went to church, read the Bible, and prayed for guidance and strength, and I prayed for his soul because he wasn’t a believer. The majority of our biggest battles were over my faith and my church attendance. I sought out pastors’ advice; they could not advise me to leave my husband because they believed it goes against God’s word.

The abusiveness of our relationship went both ways. I fought back, and sometimes I started the fight, this was mostly in the beginning stages of our relationship, but the verbal and mental abuse never stopped. God did not want me to live like that; He never did from the beginning. I wanted the truth to be a lie. I had a picture in my head of what a right and perfect family should be, and I didn’t want to believe God was telling me different. So basically, by not listening to God when He told me not to marry him, I told God He was wrong, and I spent the next twenty years trying to prove it.

If I had trusted Him when He was telling me that I could and would be able to raise a child on my own, that He would take care of us, what pain could I have saved everyone involved? Especially my son. I will never know, but I do know if God wants you somewhere, He will get you there, no matter how long you fight Him.

Even though my son didn’t go through everything I went through as a child, I know that he suffered some damage because of my lack of faith. That I didn’t heal the child in me before I hurt the one that came from me is the biggest regret of my life. The only reason that he didn’t suffer more is because of my unceasing prayers for him. By the grace of God, he has grown into a good, responsible man, contributes to society, has a kind, loving, generous heart, and has had none of the problems I put myself through. Five months before my son graduated high school, things happened that made it clear; I could no longer ignore God. Two weeks before my son left for boot camp, I finally left too.

I’ve since heard, my ex-husband is now a Christian. I pray it’s true. Sometimes, God’s answer to prayer doesn’t look like we think it should. If I had left three years earlier, would the outcome be the same? This is another thing I can never know. But what I know is this; I can never know everything God knows about a person, their past, their present, or their future, even mine. I can never presume myself knowledgeable enough to tell anyone what God says is right for their life, even my own. My job as a Christian is to lead people to Him and then get out of His way so He can do the work that needs to be done to get them where He wants them to be. My advice to anyone seeking God’s answer to prayer is to read your Bible and listen. He will make Himself known to you. “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they will follow my voice.” Matt. 10:27

And Into The Light

God truly works in mysterious ways. Where I am today, in part, is because of a client, a dog, and an old friend. I know this sounds crazy. But it’s true. Because these three things happened at the right time in both of our lives, I am now married to the man I believe God always intended for me. We couldn’t find each other earlier because we hadn’t learned the lessons we were supposed to know.

He had gone through fire himself, not the same as mine, but life had brought him to the place where he was made to face truths for himself. God brought him to a place where he found and learned what he needed to know. I can not tell his story for him. Maybe someday he will want to tell it himself, here on this blog.

When it became clear that we were starting a relationship beyond friendship, I told him my story. Not like I’m telling you here. I told him all the bits and pieces, all the terrible things about myself that I’d never told anyone before. When I finished with the telling, I asked if he still wanted to be with me; he told me he loved me even more.

Since I was a child, I’ve known God exists. I have believed that His Son and His work on the cross saved me. On the darkest of my days and despite my doubt, He never left me or let me go. But until my now-husband said those words to me, I had never FELT the depth of God’s love for me.

God took the chaos of what I had made of my life and not only brought me out of it but blessed me with the love of my life. You should never feel that you’ve made a mess so big that even God can’t clean it up. He can and will. Pray, have faith, and listen to His voice.

My Healing Is Complete

My healing did not come through my husband. It came because I did the hard work. I faced my demons, and they fled. A lie cannot remain in the light of truth. Satan has no hold over what God has claimed. The healing is what made me realize the truth about myself and others. It is what made me feel worthy of a life of happiness and love.

Our eleven years together have not been absent of sorrow or pain. We’ve been through some years of personal family drama; four deaths in fifteen months – his brother, my sister; very much unexpected – my best friend, his best friend; my friend died of cancer, his friend died of a self-inflicted gun wound. And we weren’t sure if we were going to lose another best friend who was shot three times (the head, neck, and chest). The fact she lived was nothing but miraculous. I know she’s going through healing now; I pray for her. We’ve discussed her sharing her story on this blog. If and when she is ready, she will be free to do so.

Now we have been through a pandemic, and my business was closed for two months by the government. Through all of this, I did not “drink to cope.” I didn’t lose hope or faith; I didn’t despair. I prayed, read my Bible, talked to Jesus, blocked out all the noisy chaos, and believed what He told me. I used the time as a reprieve. I welcomed the time to be still and know that He is God. I used the time to work through the grief and pain from the past four years. I’ve learned many valuable lessons through the pain and the healing process. I’ve changed lies for truth. I’ve learned forgiveness for others and myself.

Forgiveness

To forgive someone does not mean that what happened to you is any less significant. It does not lessen the impact it left on your heart, soul, mind, spirit, or body. It does not dissolve the guilty party from any consequences of their actions. To grant someone forgiveness does not mean we have to actively have them in our lives. For me, forgiveness meant I first had to realize the depth and gravity of what Jesus did on the cross for me. Not for the world. For me. If I were the only person ever to live and die believing in Jesus, He would have still hung on the cross. If only just for me.

If I’m going to find myself, who is such a sinner, worthy of forgiveness from God, I could not rightly believe my abusers are unworthy of the same mercy. That was hard to come to terms with, that a child molester could be in heaven. It is not my place (I am not God) to judge. Neither is it my place to absolve them of their guilt (I am not God). Like me, they will stand before God, forgiven or unforgiven, that is on them. God knows what they did. They, too, will face the truth, whether they do it willingly in this life or, not voluntarily, in the next. I have to leave God’s business to Him and rest in His grace, which is sufficient for me.

But He said to Me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

2 Corinthians 12:9

There are forgiveness and healing for the abuser in the same way it is for the abused. Many think a sexual predator can’t heal. But through God, the method is made possible just as it is for the rest of us sinners. Unfortunately, many never feel the need to seek forgiveness or healing because their sins are kept secret by the very people they abuse. Even if found out and they receive punishment from men, they still must face God. It’s inevitable.

God’s Instructions

People have called me strong, bold, courageous. I am the antithesis of those things. Only through the power of my Savior do I find strength, boldness, or courage. I didn’t choose to tell my story. God chose it for me, but I have willingly done as he asked because many survivors can see and understand more about the experience of sexual abuse and its aftereffects when they hear about it in someone else’s life. When it’s our own experience, we’re often too quick to brush it off as “no big deal.”

Telling my story could have been an exercise in futility if I had stopped there. I had to dig deep and deal with hard things. It was not a quick, easy, pain-free journey. The healing process was hard and long.

I do not have all the answers, but I can lead you to the One that does. I can not take away your pain, but I can lead you into the arms of The One that loves you THE MOST. I have no power to exchange Satan’s lies for truth, but I can tell you about Him, who in His very essence is truth.

Maybe you’re reading this, and you’re tired of the cycle of bad choices. Perhaps you’ve believed what happened to you hasn’t affected your life, but you realize you’ve been telling yourself lies and now desire change when being truly honest with yourself. Whatever the circumstance of your life, if you’re longing for a different life, then I advise you to pray, read your Bible, ask God what He wants you to do, and He will guide you in the right direction. He will bring the circumstances that need to happen for your healing to take place. Ask, then listen, then follow. He will not lead you astray.

It could be that you’re reading this, and you’ve recently found out someone you love is being abused or has been abused, very possibly, by someone else you love. I pray for you. Abuse doesn’t only affect the abused or the abuser; it affects the lives of all involved, even the innocent bystanders. There is healing for you too. You are not alone. Jesus sees you, He hears you, He wants to heal you.

Some Final Thoughts

I never dreamed writing about this would be such a big deal, but I kept getting blocked, upset, emotional, and frustrated with myself. I put it down, put it off, and a few times almost abandoned it. But I made myself finish (it took 5 months) because, I believe, God wants Christians to pay attention to what is happening to our children. He wants us to wake up and fight back against this evil attack on our bodies, minds, spirits, and souls. It is robbing us of the abundant life God promises His children. We must start speaking the truth. We can’t be silent anymore. We need to stop looking away. But instead turn, face our demons with the Light of the World; His name is Jesus. He brings life to dead places, forgives sins, and heals the broken and wounded. Sometimes speaking truth may cost us but we can not let that stop us. Whatever the cost, I will find it worth it if speaking my truth helps someone else who needs to hear it.

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it more abundantly.

Jesus Christ (John 10:10)

Thank you for reading the story of my healing. I did not do it for myself but you. If you pray about who and where to find an ear, and God leads you to reach out to me, please feel free to comment or send an email. We can communicate in private if you are uncomfortable speaking publicly in the comments. But where ever He leads you, please listen to His voice. He only wants the best for His children.

One more thing, if you know someone who could benefit from this, feel free to share. Thank you and God bless.

UPDATE:

March 9, 2021

It’s been 5 days since I posted this. I thought I would find relief in being finished with what God had asked me to do. Instead, for the past 5 days, I’ve felt a constant, relentless need to cry. My head has been swimming with thoughts such as, ‘What have I done?,’ ‘God, why did you ask me to do this?’, and many other doubts started flooding in. I try not to be dramatic, for my husband’s sake, so I’ve held my need to cry at bay.

Today, I find myself with some rare alone time. I love my husband dearly and cherish every second we spend together, but everyone needs alone time. Believe it or not, my husband needs time apart from me too.

Tonight I’m having a few friends over and I’m so excited about it. My plans for today consisted of cleaning house and preparing for their arrival.

Yesterday I had a Dr.’s appointment, I was gone 2 hours and when I got home my sweet husband had cleaned the house! When I asked him why he did it he said because he didn’t want me to spend my alone time cleaning house. He’s amazing!

Today I’ve found myself wandering around trying to find things to occupy my time. I came up with a few things but by 11 a.m. I had completed them all.

I pay our bills through online banking. A couple of bills were sitting on my computer so, for something to do, I sat down to pay them. As I’m sitting there, I see this little piece of paper on the floor. It was turned with the other side facing up. I figured it fell out of my Bible so I picked it up turned it over and my tears finally came flooding out.

I have been questioning God’s reasons for asking me to do this and He gave me answer. Some may call this coincidence, I don’t believe in coincidences. I have no memory of clipping this and putting it in my Bible. But I’m sure I did, I have many from over the years stuck all through my Bibles.

Judging by the first line, I clipped it at a time in my life when I needed to learn God wants me to talk freely with Him. Now He wants me to learn to talk freely with others. “As one unloads one’s heart to a dear friend.” Fellow Christians, you are all my dear friends.

Many of my close friends didn’t know these things about me until they read them here. One of my dearest friends, the one that passed from cancer, she never knew any of this.

God wants us to talk truthfully with each other. Christians aren’t meant to live life pretending we aren’t hurting, that life isn’t hard, or that we don’t sin. If I want honest, true conversation I must first be honest and true.

God is not offended by our true selves or our true thoughts. He created us to be in communion with Him and each other.

To be clear, I’m not saying everyone should do what I’ve done here. I am encouraging you to talk to God first and He will provide a safe trusting environment for you to speak freely.

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Racism

The BLM movement has been on my mind lately, as I’m sure it has been for many of you. A song I learned in Sunday school has been running through my mind all day. It goes like this, “Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world, red, yellow, black or white, they are precious in His sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world”. Surely a few of you remember it too?

That song, a plethora of questions, memories from my childhood, and all the outside noise has been running around in my brain for days now. This is a conversation we Christians need to be having with one another. ALL Christians of every color need to start talking because, as The Church, we are not fairing so well.

I’m fifty-three, I’ve lived in the south my entire life, and the sum of my personal experiences with racism is quite low. Even though I am very aware, for some, the memories are more extensive and painful, I think it speaks to the commonness of racism in the south. That being, it’s not that common in the here and now, within the general population. I could be wrong. I’d like to know.

There is true racism. I am not trying to dispute that fact, but in our common, everyday lives, I want to believe that most of us are better with each other than what we see in the media. Racism is not always a black and white issue, figuratively and literally. It exists within every race of every color. It’s not a character flaw only white people have. It’s a heart issue, and that is the heart of the issue.

Feel free to share your personal (not someone else’s) story of any racism you have personally experienced or have witnessed with your eyes in the comment space below. This is part of the conversation we need to have, but it needs to be true, and it needs to be personal.

My Dilemma

I’ve been at this for three weeks. This is my third attempt to put my thoughts into words. I’ve tried three different approaches to the subject.

What does the Bible say?

What are my personal experiences?

What are the facts?

This is a tough subject (I’m learning) to discuss, especially as a white person. Being a white person, I really don’t have enough personal experience even to mention. So that wouldn’t make for a very lengthy discussion. I searched the Bible, and I will share what I found, but it wasn’t much to make for a very lengthy discussion. In the end, I have decided to share some facts I’ve learned, share what I found in the Bible, and leave it open to discussion.

These are not political facts or political talking points, just numbers & statistics. This is not a political conversation; it’s a human conversation. It’s a Christian conversation.

Is Profiling Racist?

A Question I Need Answered For Myself

In my opinion, there is a difference between racial profiling and just profiling. To determine the character of an individual based solely on the color of their skin is racist. But is determining the character of an individual based on their appearance wrong?

Fashion choices can be described with many different synonyms and antonyms. Chic, hip, trendy, tasteful, cheesy, flashy, and tacky are just a few. There is one, in particular, that I find myself using when trying to size people up. I’m sure this is not the official name for it, but I call it criminal.

Let’s be honest. There are two types of people in this world. Good and bad. Those that will hurt you and those that won’t. Both types come in all shades of color. The good ones have to use some judgment of character to protect themselves from the bad ones. That God-given instinct to protect ourselves from harm should not be misconstrued as racist.

True enough, everyone deserves a chance to prove their true character, and true enough everyone deserves to be able to use their most basic instincts, self-preservation, without being labeled racist.

Also true, not all bad people look like criminals. Not only do they come in all colors, but they also have a varied sense of fashion. We should all take into account the statement we make to the world with how we present ourselves. If we don’t want to be instantly labeled a criminal, we shouldn’t dress or act like one, no matter the color of our skin.

Prison Population

According to the Bureau of Justice Statistics (BJS), at the end of 2017, federal and state prisons held 1,489,363 inmates. 475,900 were black, and 436,500 were white, a difference of 39,400. Ten years earlier, there were 592,900 black and 499,800 white, a difference of 93,100.

As of September 26, 2020, according to the Bureau of Prisons (BOP) Statistics, the percentage of races in prison are: Asian; 2,346, 1.5% / Black; 59,678, 38.5% / Native American; 3,660, 2.4% / Whites; 89,473, 53% / Females; 10,502, 6.8% / Males; 144,655, 93.2%

According to the NAACP web page, there are 3 million people in jail and prison today. Between 1980 and 2015, the number of people incarcerated increased from roughly 500,000 to 2.2 million.

Despite making up close to 5% of the global population, the U.S. has nearly 25% of the world’s prison population. States spent nearly $81 billion on corrections. A U.S. Department of Education report from July 7, 2016, says that state and local spending on prisons and jails has increased at triple the funding rate for public education for preschool through grade twelve in the last three decades.

7% of adults in the U.S. are under correctional supervision. That equates to 1 out of every 37 adults in the U.S. Since 1970 our incarcerated population has increased by 700%.

Since 1991 the rate of violent crime in the U.S. has fallen by about 20%, while the number of people in prison or jail has risen by 50%.

Penal Labor and Prison Industrial Complex

The term “prison-industrial complex (PIC), derived from the “military-industrial complex” of the 1950s. It is the term used to describe the overlapping interests of government and industry that use surveillance, policing, and imprisonment to solve economic, social, and political problems.

To make money, corporate prisons are set up so that they need prisoners and lots of them. State governments sign contracts with the correctional corporations who agree to provide a certain number of prison beds and keep those beds filled or at least 90%.

An article I read on Malta Justice Initiative says prison labor in the United States is insourcing. Under the Work Opportunity Tax Credit (WOTC), employers receive a tax credit of $2,400 for every work-release inmate they employ as a reward for hiring “risky target groups.” The companies also don’t have to provide benefits or worry about unions, vacation time, raises, or family issues. You can do a Google search and find some major companies that benefit from penal labor. For-profit companies employ 7% of state prisoners and 18% of federal prisoners.

Wages are equivalent to less than $1 per hour in most penal labor programs with up to 12-hour workdays. The pay scale for federal prisoners is $.12 to $.40 per hour. In Texas, inmates are not paid for labor. The Texas penal labor system, managed by Texas Correctional Industries, is valued at $88.9 million in 2014. The estimated annual value of prison and jail industrial output is $2 billion.

Why Are So Many In Prison?

Offenses, bop.gov as of Saturday, September 26, 2020

  1. Banking/Insurance, Counterfeit, Embezzlement…..272; 0.2% of inmates
  2. Burglary, Larceny, Property Offenses…………………..7,432; 5.1%
  3. Continuing Criminal Enterprise…………………………..299; 0.2%
  4. Courts of Corrections…………………………………………..549; 0.4%
  5. Drug Offenses…………………………………………………….67,689; 46.2%
  6. Extortion, Fraud, Bribery…………………………………….8,033; 5.5%
  7. Homicide, Aggravated Assault, Kidnapping…………..4,820; 3.3%
  8. Immigration……………………………………………………….6,125; 4.2%
  9. Miscellaneous……………………………………………………..920; 0.6%
  10. National Security…………………………………………………44; 0.0%
  11. Robbery………………………………………………………………5,031; 3.4%
  12. Sex Offenses………………………………………………………..15,981; 10.9%
  13. Weapons, Explosives, Arson………………………………….29,407; 20.1%

2.3 % of inmates received 0-1 year, 8.5% received 1-3 years, 10.6% received 3-5 years, 26.7% received a sentence of 5-10 years, 22.9% received 10-15, 12.4 received 15-20, 14.9% received 20 years or more, 2.9% received life.

Who’s Doing All Those Drugs?

One out of every three Black boys born today can expect to be sentenced to prison, compared to one out of six Latino boys; one out of seventeen white boys. 5% of illicit drug users are Black, yet blacks represent 29% of those arrested and 33% of those incarcerated for drug offenses.

In the 2015 National Survey on Drug Use and Health, about 17 million white people and 4 million Blacks reported using illicit drugs within the last month. Blacks and Whites use drugs at similar rates, but the Blacks’ imprisonment rate is almost 6 times that of whites.

Police Brutality

Source: Statista # of People Shot to Death (Numbers for 2020. are as of Sept.8)

2017: WHITES-457 / BLACKS-223 / HISPANICS-179 / OTHER- 44 / UNKNOWN-84

2018: WHITES-399 / BLACKS-209 / HISPANICS-148 / OTHER-36 / UNKNOWN-204

2019: WHITES-370 /BLACKS-235 / HISPANICS-158 / OTHER-39 / UNKNOWN-202

2020: WHITES-287 / BLACKS-142 / HISPANICS-96 / OTHER-17 / UNKNOWN-179

White people make up a little over 60% of the population; they make up about 41% of fatal police shootings. Black people makeup 13.4% of the population but make up 22% of fatal police shootings.

Fatal police violence is the 6th leading cause of death for men ages 25-29 across all racial groups. The lifetime risk of dying from police is at its highest from ages 20-35. This applies to men and women of all races.

What Does This Cost Us?

Many police brutality offenses and fatal police shootings are not prosecuted in criminal court. Victims and the families of victims have been able to pursue civil judgments. During the 2019 fiscal year, $175.9 million in civil judgments and claims for police-related lawsuits was paid by New York City.

$500 million was paid out by Chicago’s city between 2004 and 2014 for police misconduct-related lawsuits.

As of Feb. 6, 2020, there have been 2,674 exonerations of the wrongfully accused. 1,332 of the exonerated were Black. Black defendants are 22% more likely to have convictions involving police misconduct that eventually result in exoneration.

What Does The Bible Say?

Colossians 3:11; Where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.

Jeremiah 13:23; Can the Ethiopian change his skin or the leopard its spots? Then may you also do good who are accustomed to do evil. Jeremiah used this proverb to warn God’s people (the Jews) they were stuck in their sinful nature and unable to change themselves. Therefore, the answer was not national reform, but national repentance and reliance upon God to change the human heart’s nature.

Evil, now fitting them like a glove, not only deep-dyed, was by now something they could not more change or wish to change than the color of their skin.

Derek Kidner

John 4:9: The Samaritan woman said to Him, “you are a Jew and I am a Samaritan woman. How can you ask me for a drink?” ( For Jews do not associate with Samaritans).

The Jews thought Samaritans were demon possessed, John 8:48.

In Esther 3:8-10, Hamon plots to kill Jews because “their customs were different from all others”.

James 2:1-4, speaks on prejudice toward the poor.

In Acts 13:50 & 21:27-32, we see how prejudice led to intolerance and persecution.

When I set out to search the Bible for any advice it might hold for those who seek it; I really expected there to be more on this subject. I used the concordance and the topical index. I searched for racism, bigotry, bias, skin color, racial relations, and prejudice. This is the sum of that search. Not much. I asked God why there wasn’t more written on this topic. How could something that has caused this world such turmoil not be discussed in the Bible more than this? While studying the Bible alone, I’ve learned that when I ask God a question, He answers.

Who Is Our Neighbor?

Luke 10:25-37; On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the law?”, He replied. “How do you read it?” He answered: “‘Love the Lord you God with all your heart and with all your mind, and ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.” But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, “and who is my neighbor?’ In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he fell into the hands of robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came to where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, took him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two silver coins and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him’, he said, ‘ and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’ “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The lawyer replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

With these words, Jesus spoke all that ever needed to be said about racism, bigotry, or prejudice. As Christians, we are not to have any of it in our hearts. We are to love and care for everyone, no matter the color of their skin. That’s all there is to it. Simple enough. Or it should be.

Some Last Thoughts

My personal life experiences are by no means compared to others who have suffered horrible injustices because of the color of their skin. Personal experiences impact our perspective and how we can falsely perceive an entire group of people based on our experiences with just a few. I’ve learned bad people come in all colors but so do good people. Some bad people hold an office, but there are also some excellent ones.

That’s why it is so important if we are ever going to work this out to share our personal stories. When we hear stories of what other people have lived and experienced, it helps us become more compassionate.

Are We Letting Others Incite Us?

Acts 13:50; But the Jews stirred up the devout and honorable women, and the chief men of the city, and raised persecution…..

Acts 21:27; “…. the Jews which were of Asia, when they saw him in the temple, stirred up all the people…vs.30; ….And all the city was moved, and the people ran together…”

Dear fellow Christians, no matter the color of your skin, if you are letting yourself be stirred up by “the Jews” or the “Pharisees” of this world, stop. Just stop, and turn from your wicked ways so that our land can be healed. The Bible has lots to say about love. Please turn off the TV, put down your phone, shut out any distraction, and read it. Because if we are ever to change this world, we must heal and change our own hearts first.

Not all white people are racist; not all black people are criminals; not all police officers are corrupt. I know this because I’ve experienced some good and bad from all of them. I can not change the world, and I know racism will never go away. But, is there anything I can do?

Doing Our Part As Christians

My Pledge

To my fellow Christians of color, I love you. I will not pass you by when I see you beaten and left for dead in the street. You are a child of God, and you are my neighbor. As a fellow child of God, I will stand with you when you want justice. I will vote for laws that bring equality for everyone, in the eyes of the law. Laws can and have changed certain things, a front seat on the bus, the right to sit in any restaurant, the right to vote, etc. But laws can not change the heart of the human.

Racism will always be here until Jesus comes to take us home. Here in this world, where evil exists, there can be no utopian society where it just disappears. But until then, I vow not to be a party to it, to stand up and speak up when I am a witness to it. But if you want me to bust up a Target and steal some lamps, that I will not do or condone. I’ve been told that it is a racist statement. But, no matter your color, if you’re a Christian, you know that is not what Jesus wants you to be doing.

Let’s ALL take a pledge to be better Christians and neighbors to each other. Let’s ALL be more like Jesus. Let’s ALL love each other because Jesus loves us ALL, red, yellow, black, or white. We may not be able to change the world, but we can at least try to change the little piece of it we each live in. As Christians, it’s our duty.

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#CancelNetflix. Really?

For a few days now, I’ve seen many posts about canceling Netflix because of the movie Cuties. The memes and posts state that the movie promotes pedophilia. I am not a person who participates in the boycotting of anything based on others’ beliefs, even if the boycotters’ beliefs align with mine. However, I am extremely anti-pedophilia. If the claims I saw about this movie were indeed true, I would shut Netflix down. So last night, I watched the movie in its entirety, with my husband, who I would need to be on board with me if I should need to take a stand.

First, the movie was made in a different culture, and it was poorly made and hard to watch. Second, in no way did it promote pedophilia. In fact, it was the exact opposite. So I’m speculating that most people typing out #CancelNetflix have not watched the movie.

The movie centers around four eleven-year-old girls who have very little, near-zero, parent participation in their lives. They want to enter a dance contest and turn to the internet to learn dance moves. The moves they incorporate into their routine are reminiscent of a recent Super Bowl halftime show that I saw many praising. Some of them are now posting #CancelNetflix.

This movie is about the sexualization of girls. It’s about how things can turn out badly for a girl who bases her beliefs on what it means to be a woman, based on what she sees and hears adults doing on the internet. Did they dance provocatively? Yes, they did, but no more than I’ve seen on some popular TV shows I know many of you watch regularly. Were they prompted to do so by someone in their personal lives; Mom, Dad, Aunt, Uncle, the creepy neighbor on the corner? No, they weren’t. They were prompted by what they watched on the internet/TV.

Blame shouldn’t be put on the show/movie/song or its creator. The blame belongs to adults who watch/listen/sing with their way too young children or pays no attention to what they are watching and hearing. Many things in this world are not meant for young eyes or ears. They don’t have the capacity to sort it out and process it correctly. Which is one point the movie was trying to make.

Television didn’t play the culprit in the movie’s plot, but in real life, it is very much the culprit. Some American television shows/movies/songs have been sexualizing children for many years now, and I’ve seen zero outrage. I guess outrage over something that so many sit with their young children and watch weekly (or sing along with) as a family is too big of an ask. Maybe, if someone made a meme about it, that would spark some rage.

The Power of Memes

Last night I decided to watch the movie because of memes and hashtags I’d seen on social media. Notice, I didn’t see the meme and deem it true or factual. Today on a morning show, they had a segment about the movie. The writer/director (a woman) stated that people were missing the point. No, they aren’t missing the point because they didn’t watch the movie. They saw a meme and jumped on the meme train to oblivion.

I find it quite disturbing how people are getting their “knowledge” from memes. Maybe there is some truth to be told, but shouldn’t we do some research before we believe it ourselves or spread the lie to others. Christians aren’t supposed to lie. In fact, if you are a believer that believes lifestyle dictates where one will be spending eternity (I am not), lying is one of those damnable lifestyles. Rev. 22:15, check it out.

#Save Our Children

Pedophilia has been around a long, long, long time before #SOC. Why only now are we caring about our children? Is it because it’s the new trendy cool thing we are all supposed to care about for the moment? Does posting #ANYTHING really make a difference? Will it stop a woman from being me-too’d? Will it change the mind of anyone as to the validity of Black life? I’m going out on a limb here, but probably not.

If we really want to #SOC, shouldn’t we, as the adults and parents of the children we are trying to save, care about what goes into their minds and ears? Is it OK to post #SOC but listen with them to WAP or let them see you talking about, on social media, the porn you’ve been watching? There are things in life that are adult-only; we should remember that.

Read Luke 17:2 to see what Jesus had to say about anyone who causes a child to stumble. There are numerous ways to cause a child to stumble. Pedophilia is one but not the only one. Don’t you think the things we are allowing our children to see & hear cause them to stumble? I do.

Conclusion

We will not be canceling Netflix. In fact, I encourage all of you to watch the movie. It may get you “woke” to some things you’ve been doing or not paying attention to in the welfare of your own children.

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Revelation Chapter 1

Christians should not fear this book When I was a small girl, I can’t remember my exact age, but I was at least 7 or 8. A Sunday school teacher told me that we weren’t meant to understand the Book … Continue reading

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The Bible, “God’s Word”,… or is it?

I’ve personally never questioned the Holy Bible’s accuracy or if it was written through the power of the Holy Spirit. It seems counter-productive to believe in God, whom I’ve never seen with my eyes, nor have I heard Him speak with my ears, and not believe the Bible is His Spirit which He left for us who believe in His Son, Jesus Christ. The Spirit who lives in us believers is the same Spirit who lives through His Word. I’ve always considered it a Christian’s guidebook to life.

I have a hard time trying to imagine that my God, who, I believe, created the whole world and every tiny detail of it, can lack the power to control every aspect of His Word. I’ve never considered it before now. This new-found consideration, you’d think, came about from conversations I’d been having with atheists or other nonbelievers. Still, in actuality, it stems from conversations I’ve been having with fellow Christians.

This breaks my heart a little. I expect nonbelievers to discredit the Bible because they do not believe. I get it, and I’m not upset with them for it. My God says to expect it, free will and all. But more than making me sad, it intrigues me how someone can claim Christianity and at the same time believe the Bible inaccurate, contradictory, and more than half of it (the Old Testament) irrelevant. I want to understand, or at least try to understand, how someone could believe in a God capable of making mistakes. But then I remembered it wasn’t technically God they credited for the mistakes since they were blaming human error. So I’ve been pondering some things, and I’d like to share them with you here so that we can talk them over.

A LITTLE HISTORY ON THE BIBLE

The Old Testament was written at different times between about 1200 and 165 BC, a period of 1035 years. 1200 BC was 3244 years ago! There were roughly 400 years between the OT and the NT. The NT covers only 70 years. The years are approximate because, contrary to what logic would tell us, Jesus was not born at the hinge of BC/AD. It has been established that Herod died in 4 BC (2022 years ago). So Jesus must have been born before.

The oldest, still existing, copy of a complete Bible is an early 4th-century parchment book preserved in the Vatican Library, and it is known as the Codex Vaticanus. The oldest copy of the Tanakh in Hebrew and Aramaic dates from the 10th century.

The discovery of the Dead Sea Scrolls (dating 200 BC-68 AD) in 1947 drastically reduced the period from the writing of the OT to our earliest copies of them. The period of the NT is exceptional. It’s less than 200 years, and some books are within 100 years from the date of authorship to the date of our earliest copies.

Another tidbit on the Dead Sea Scrolls: In 2012, access (to anyone with a computer) was opened to everyone to look at the oldest Bible, known to humankind. High-resolution images of the Dead Sea Scrolls were posted online in a partnership between Google and the Israel Antiquities Authority. It includes portions of the Ten Commandments and the book of Genesis. Most of the fragments are not on display anywhere. Even if you were to go to Israel to the book’s shrine, you would not be able to see the 5,000 pieces that are online here. See for yourself at The Dead Sea Scrolls Digital Library.

IS THE OLD TESTAMENT STILL RELEVANT

The OT narrative builds anticipation for a coming savior, a blessed people, and a broader land. It creates the problem and includes promises that the NT answers and fulfills. We need the OT to understand God’s work in history fully. It greatly influences our understanding of key Biblical teachings. Where would Christians find worldview shaping ideas if not from Genesis 1?

The OT was Jesus’ only scripture, and He quotes or references it many times in the NT. If we discard the OT, how would we ever be able to know what He is talking about? Jesus is God; the OT mattered to Him. The OT was the only Scripture Jesus, and the earliest church had. It makes up 75.55% of our Bible.

Matt. 5:17: "Do not think that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish but to fulffill"

Luke 24:44: Now He said to them, “These are My words which I spoke to you while I was still with you, that all things which are written about Me in the Law of Moses and the Prophets and the Psalms must be fulfilled.”

The OT was the first revelation of God. It built a foundation for the fulfillment we find in the NT. By the end of Deuteronomy, the 4th book of the OT, all five of the major covenants (Adamic-Noahic, Abrahamic, Mosaic, Davidic & New) that guide Scripture’s plot structure have already been described or hinted at. Then the rest of the OT builds on this in more detail.

The NT teachings are built on the framework supplied in the OT, and it’s filled with hundreds of quotes, references, and reflections from the OT. To understand a lot of what is written in the NT, we need the OT.

WE MEET THE SAME GOD IN BOTH TESTAMENTS

Hebrews 1:1-2; “God, after He spoke long ago to the fathers in the prophets in many portions and many ways, in these last days has spoken to us in His Son, whom He appointed heir of all things, through whom also He made the world.” The same God who spoke through the OT prophets speaks through Jesus.

Some people feel the OT God is one of wrath & judgment, and the NT God is one of freedom, grace, and forgiveness. If we compare some verses from both Testaments, we’ll see they are the same.

Ex. 34:6; “Then the Lord passed by in front of him and proclaimed, ‘The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth’…”

2 Kings 13:23; “But the Lord was gracious to them and had compassion on them and turned to them because of his covenant with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, and would not destroy them or cast them from His presence until now.”

2 Chron. 30:9; “For if you return to the Lord, your brothers and your sons will find compassion before those who led them captive and will return to this land. For the Lord, your God is gracious and compassionate, and will not turn His face away from you if you return to Him.”

Neh. 9:30-31; “However, You bore with them for many years and admonished them by Your Spirit through Your prophets, yet they would not give ear. Therefore, You gave them into the hand of the peoples of the lands. Nevertheless, in Your great compassion, You did not make an end of them or forsake them, for You are a gracious and compassionate God.”

The OT is filled with verses of how compassionate, patient, loving, and forgiving God is. Even though His people were wayward, faithless, sinful, arrogant, selfish, and stubborn, He continued to pardon and preserve them. He never forsook them.

God’s grace fills the OT just as it does in the NT. In the NT, Jesus speaks about hell more than anyone else. God is just as wrathful in the NT as He is in the OT.

Matt. 10:28; “Do not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.”

Matt. 18:6; “but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck, and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.”

Acts 10: 42-42; “And He ordered us to preach to the people, and solemnly to testify that this is the One who has been appointed by God as Judge of the living and the dead. Of Him, all the prophets bear witness that through His name everyone who believes in Him receives forgiveness of sins.”

Rom. 12:19; “Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is Mine, I will repay, says the Lord'”. Paul is quoting here from the OT, Deut. 32:35.

We first learn of the good news of the coming Messiah in the OT. Gen. 12:2-3; “And I will make you a great nation, and I will bless you, and make your name great; so you shall be a blessing; I will bless those who bless you, and the one who curses you I will curse. And in you, all the nations of the earth will be blessed.”

How can we know this is the meaning of these two verses? Because Paul says in Gal. 3:8; “The Scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, preached the gospel beforehand to Abraham, saying, ‘All the nations will be blessed in you'”. He stresses this in Rom. 1:1-3; “Paul, a bond-servant of Christ Jesus, called as an apostle, set apart for the gospel of God, which He promised beforehand through His prophets in the Holy Scriptures, concerning His Son, who was born of a descendant of David according to the flesh…”

Both the Old and New Testaments call for love and we can learn much about love from the OT. Jesus stressed this point in Matt. 22:37-40; “And He said to him, ‘ You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and foremost commandment. The second is like it, You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets”.

Here Jesus was referring to OT Scripture, Deut. 6:5. Again in Matt. 7:12, Jesus speaks of the Law and the Prophets, “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” The God, of the NT, who calls Christians to live lives characterized by love, is the very God of the OT who called Israel to do the same.

Luke 16:16; Rom. 6:14; 1 Cor. 9:20-21; Gal. 5:18; In these passages, we read the OT’s age has ended, but it remains relevant. It makes a prominent exhibition of the character of God. Rom. 7:12; “So then, the Law is holy, and the commandment is holy and righteous and good.” In the NT, John 1:45; John 5:39; 5:46-47; Luke 24:27, Jesus said all the OT points to Him. He quoted from fourteen individual books of the OT. The OT is quoted in the NT over 1,600 times. If you want to know Jesus, better read the OT.

HOW ACCURATE IS THE BIBLE

How can we be sure the Bible is the same now as when it was written? Some believe because it’s been copied and translated so many times, there have to be inaccuracies. But how accurate is that belief? No one who has made that statement to me has been able to name even one inaccuracy or contradiction. I’ve done some searching into this subject, and I’ll list a few that I’ve found.

Ex. 20:8; “Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy”.

Supposed contradiction; Rom. 14:5; “One person regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Each person must be fully convinced in his own mind.”

Jesus tells us He came to fulfill the law, not destroy it. He grew up under the law, and yet He says in Matt. 12:12; “How much more valuable then is a man than a sheep! So then, it is lawful to do good on the Sabbath.” Even though Christians are not under the law of Moses in a religious sense, they can still observe the sabbath, but they “must be fully convinced in their own mind.”

Ecc. 1:4; “A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains forever.”

Supposed contradiction; 2 Pet. 3: 10; “But the day of the Lord will come like a thief, and then the heavens will pass away with a roar, and the heavenly bodies will be burned up and dissolved, and the earth and the works that are done on it will be exposed.”

Ecc. 1:4 is a human perspective that as generations come and go, the earth will remain. 2 Peter is the reality that sometime in the future, Jesus will return and “create new heavens and a new earth.” (Is. 65:17; Rev.21:1) But this does not mean that the earth will not remain, only that it will be changed in a very significant way.

Gen. 32:30; “So Jacob named the place Peniel, for he said, ‘I have seen God face to face, yet my life has been preserved.”

Supposed contradiction; John 1:18; “No one has seen God at any time; the only begotten Son who is in the bosom of the Father, He has explained Him.”

Moses saw God in a burning bush (Ex. 3:2). Job saw God in a whirlwind (Job 38:1). Let’s back up a few verses and see what was going on with Jacob before saying he “saw” God face to face.

Gen. 32:24-29; “Then Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. When he saw that he had not prevailed against him, he touched the socket of this thigh; so the socket of Jacob’s thigh was dislocated while he wrestled with him. Then he said, ‘Let me go, for the dawn is breaking.’ But he said, ‘I will not let you go unless you bless me.’ So he said to him, ‘What is your name?’ And he said, ‘Jacob.’ He said, ‘Your name shall no longer be Jacob, but Israel; for you have striven with God and with men and have prevailed.’ Then Jacob asked him and said, ‘Please tell me your name.’ But he said, ‘Why is it that you ask my name.’ And he blessed him there.”

Was it really God Jacob saw? No. What Moses, Job, and Jacob saw was a manifestation or a representative of God.

Lev. 18:21; “You shall not give any of your offspring to offer them to Molech, nor shall you profane the name of your God; I am the Lord.”

Supposed contradiction; Judges 11:30-31; “Jephthah made a vow to the Lord and said, ‘If You will indeed give the sons of Ammon into my hand, then it shall be that whatever comes out of the door of my house to meet me when I return in triumph from the sons of Ammon, it shall be the Lord’s, and I will offer it up as a burnt offering.”

The Bible makes it very clear that God considers human sacrifice to be an abomination. Read Deut. 12:31; Jer. 19:4-5; Lev. 20:2; 2 Kings 3:27; 16: 2-3; 2 Chron. 28-3; Ez. 20:31; Ps. 106: 37-41.

In Judges 11, God did not ask Jephthah to make this sacrifice. Jephthah made this foolish vow of his own accord. Maybe it was an attempt to manipulate God. Surely, when he made this vow, he never considered anything other than an animal would be the first out of his door. We know he knew God’s word because he demonstrated this knowledge when he negotiated with the Ammonites. It is almost certain he knew that the Mosaic Law strictly forbade human sacrifice. If he actually sacrificed his daughter by fire, he should not have done so because it clearly went against God, and he knew it.

God would not have made or expected him to keep his vow in this way. In Judges 11: 37-39, his daughter asks for two months to “lament her virginity,” not her impending death. So it seems she was “sacrificed” in the sense that her life would be consecrated unto God and she would never marry or have children.

Ex. 21:23-25; “But if there is any further injury, then you shall appoint as a penalty life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burn for burn, wound for wound, bruise for bruise.”

Supposed contradiction; Matt. 5:39; “But I say to you, do not resist an evil person; but whoever slaps you on your right cheek, turn the other to him also.”

The Mosaic Law in Ex. 21 was not requiring vengeance but putting limitations on it. The law recommended that punishment fit the crime. Jesus went much further than the law, making it clear that He wasn’t merely calling for more limitations on vengeance but that we must give up personal vengeance altogether. There is a difference between confronting evil and seeking personal revenge.

We see, in Matt. 23, Jesus denounced the Pharisees who attacked Him and in, John 18:22-23, He objected when an officer of the high priest struck him. He advised His disciples to be prepared to defend themselves in Matt. 10:16 and Luke 22:36-38. Jesus does not ask us to be passive, but He does want us to surrender our right to personal revenge. (Rom. 12:19). When we seek revenge, we are motivated by hatred and a desire to make someone pay for what they have done to us.

James 2:24; “You see that a person is considered righteous by what they do and not by faith alone.”

Supposed contradiction; Rom. 3:20; “Therefore no one will be declared righteous in God’s sight by the works of the law; rather, through the law, we become conscious of our sin.” 28; “For we maintain that a person is justified by faith apart from the works of the law.” 5:1; “Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

This is the most important matter. It’s a matter of how sinners are saved. Paul and James both speak of justification, but they are speaking about two different kinds of justification. In Romans, the context is our standing before God, His view, and verdict upon us. God justifies us by our faith; he counts us as righteous because of the faith only He can see.

In James, the context is our standing before people, their view, and verdict upon us. People cannot see the faith in our hearts, so they conclude we are righteous by the good works they see in our lives. The whole book of James is about how we are to live out our faith. It’s all about the visible practice, visibly practicing our faith, our relationship with other people, and how they see us. It’s not about how we get salvation but how we demonstrate that we have it.

LET’S WRAP IT UP

The Jewish scribes held great reverence toward the Scriptures. They took extreme measures when making new copies of the Hebrew Bible, and as a result, the manuscripts’ quality exceeds all other ancient manuscripts. The reliability of the Old Testament is excellent.

The New Testament supposedly has some errors, but I have not found one source to tell me exactly what they are. I’ve read they are visual errors or audible errors in copying, or errors from faulty writing. I’m concluding that none of these supposed errors are big or significant enough to call into question any of the doctrines of the New Testament. If you are privy to this information, please use the comment space to let me know.

The Bible is 66 books woven together to make one book. We can examine the truth claims of various authors of the Bible. This is significant evidence that can not be overlooked. Many of the Bible’s authors claim to be eyewitnesses of the events they recorded.

Scriptures repeatedly refer to historical events; they are verifiable; they can be fact-checked. Sources have well established the history of Jesus outside of the Bible. Historian, Flavius Josephus, made several references to Biblical events and gave many background details in his Antiquities to the Jews. Other 1st and 2nd century writers mention Jesus: Cornelius Tacitus, Gaius Suetonius Tranquillus, & Pliny the Younger.

Archeology has provided external proof of hundreds of Biblical statements. As a result of their work, many archeologists have developed a great respect for the Scriptures’ historical accuracy.

I have never needed proof that the Bible is real, accurate, and intact. But if someone needs the proof, it is out there. Many who have set out to dispute, refute, or prove it false have become believers. As I have spent many hours reading and researching, I have only become more adamant that the Bible is God’s Holy Word. It is exactly what He wanted, and we are not to add to or take away from it (Deut 4:2; Rev. 22:18-19). If it seems to be contradictory, it is only to make us dig deeper. I think God likes, and He is not afraid of, our questions because when searching for the answers, we come to know Him even better.


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Church…To Attend or Not to Attend Part 2

In my last blog, I discussed church and politics. Today I want to talk about the judgments that come out of organized religion.

1 Cor. 5:12-13: “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside? “God will judge those outside. Expel the wicked man from among you.”

People outside the church see Christians as judgmental, unforgiving, and unloving. They want no part of us. I have no shame in my Christianity, but I have heard many say they don’t like to use the word “Christian” because of their reputation with those outside the church. This saddens me so much! It should you as well.

As Christians, we are to be set apart from the world. It is not based on our judgment of them but because of our love, kindness, honesty, integrity, peacefulness, and pureness of heart.

Certain sinful lifestyles organized religion has picked from the Bible that they have decided will send someone to hell.

“Hell- the land where repentance is impossible and useless where it is possible” Spurgeon

In my personal experience, being someone who has committed just about every sin possible, I have been told by God Himself that I will NOT be going to hell. (John 3:16) So, if God has told me I am forgiven (1 John 1:9), I belong to Him. Nothing will ever snatch me from Him (John 10:28) (Rom. 8:38-39) and if my response to Him is unbelief, and living in fear that every failure to be perfect will send me to hell, am I not calling God a liar and sinning in my unbelief?

I know there are many verses in the Bible that religion likes to use when attempting to prove that certain lifestyles are evidence of no salvation for the people living those lifestyles. 1 John 3:4-9 is one example.

“Everyone who practices sin also practices lawlessness; indeed, sin is lawlessness. And you know that Jesus was revealed to take away sins, and in Him, there is no sin. Everyone who resides in Him does not sin; everyone who sins has neither seen Him nor known Him. Little children, let no one deceive you: The one who practices righteousness is righteous, just as Jesus is righteous. The one who practices sin is of the devil because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. For this purpose, the Son of God was revealed: to destroy the works of the devil. Everyone who has been fathered by God does not practice sin, because God’s seed resides in him, and thus he is not able to sin, because he has been fathered by God.”

Let’s walk through these verses line by line. “Everyone who practices sin also practices lawlessness; indeed, sin is lawlessness.”

We know he is not simply talking about a one time sin, but a practice, lifestyle, or habitual sinning act. We know that EVERYONE who practices sin is guilty of lawlessness. However, we are not given a list of “practices” or “habitual sins” that are considered to be lawlessness. Without that information (I am aware of all the verses that do list specific sins, but here I am speaking to the context of these verses), how can we say one lifestyle vs. another is a “practicing sin lifestyle”?

For instance, say you live a life of lies you’ve been telling for years. Is that a “practicing sin lifestyle” that will exclude you from Heaven? Another example, say you mistreat your body, your temple where the Lord dwells, with excessive food, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, adultery, fornication, or any multitude of abuses we dole out to our bodies, is that a “practicing sin lifestyle” that will exclude you from Heaven?

One more, say you are a habitual gossiper, pot-stirrer, trouble maker, sower of discord, your tongue is a “restless evil, full of deadly poison” (James 3:8), or perhaps you live habitually harboring bitter envy and selfish ambition in your heart (James 3:14) is that a “practicing sin lifestyle” that will exclude you from Heaven? There are so many examples of sinful lifestyles that we could put into question here, but I think, I hope you get the point.

The obvious answer to each of these questions is yes. Each of these examples of sinful lifestyles deserves the damnation of hell. But, if you are a believer in Christ and His work on the cross, then the next two sentences should give you hope.

“And you know that Jesus was revealed to TAKE AWAY SINS and IN HIM THERE IS NO SIN.” “EVERYONE who resides IN HIM DOES NOT SIN; NO ONE WHO CONTINUES TO SIN has either seen Him or known Him.”

In these two verses, John has defined the mission of Jesus at its most basic root- to take away our sins. Matthew 1:21: ” You shall call His name Jesus, for He shall save His people from their sin.” He takes away our sin in the sense of taking the penalty of our sin. This is immediately finished when we come by faith to Him. He takes away our sin in the sense of taking the power of sin away. This is an ongoing work in the lives of all believers. When a believer in Christ passes into eternity, and we are glorified with Jesus, the presence of sin is taken away. Jesus has taken our sin upon Himself because, in Him, there was no sin.

My take away from these two verses is, as a Christian, I will continue to sin until I pass into eternity; the penalty for my sin has been paid. Sin has no power over me. As a follower of Christ, I should strive to lead a sinless lifestyle, but at the same time, I’m told that isn’t possible until I reach Heaven.

Even though our salvation is complete the moment we first believe, that isn’t a ticket to live our lives however we please. We are expected to grow in our faith; we are not to remain baby Christians our whole lives. Jesus loves us and accepts us just as we are, and in the “lifestyle” we are living at the moment of our salvation, but we aren’t meant to stay in that place if Jesus tells us it is wrong.

If you think your lifestyle or habitual sins are exempt from these expectations as a Christian but at the same time, you are casting judgment on others’ lifestyles; you should ask yourself these questions to determine if your thinking aligns with scripture. “Have I spoke the truth to the lies I’ve been telling? (John 8:31-32) Have I corrected all the sins I commit against my body, God’s temple? (1st Cor. 3:16-17) Have I removed all the harmful “habits” from my life? (Col. 3:5:15) Is there any envy or selfish ambition left in me? (James 3:16) Have I stopped being a busy body? Do I mind my own business?

*A busybody is a person who meddles in the affairs of others. Sometimes, this meddling is under the guise of “helping,” but the “help” is usually unwelcome and uninvited. Busybodies are often people who are dissatisfied with the level of drama in their own lives and gain satisfaction by becoming involved in other people’s problems. Gossip is usually a staple of every busybody, but it is usually camouflaged as a “prayer request” or given under the pretense of asking for advice.*

The Bible has strong words for the busybody. (2nd Thess. 3:11; 1st Tim. 5:13 and 1st Peter 4:15, where it’s listed right up there with murderers and thieves, John 21:20-22) Am I keeping my life simple, or am I living a materialistic lifestyle? (Matt. 6: 19-21) Is the lifestyle I’m living, causing anyone harm or hurt, even myself (..be sure, your sin will find you out Numbers 32:23)? Am I guarding my words? Do I use them as a weapon to hurt? (1st Peter 3:10; Col. 4:6; Eph. 4:29; Matt. 15:11; Pro. 15:4; 21:23; 26:20; 31:26; & 34:13: these are just a few.

The Bible says a lot on this subject. I encourage you to search them out and read them.) Am I putting Christ first in every area of my life? (Matt. 6:33) Is there anything in my lifestyle that does not honor God? (1 John 1:19) Is there anything I’m doing continuously, habitually, that I would not do if Jesus were standing in the flesh before me? (1 Cor. 6:12) When I present these questions to myself, it humbles me every time to the point that I will not dare point a finger of accusation in any other direction than at myself.

As Christians, we are expected to grant much forgiveness because we have been granted much forgiveness ourselves. We are in no way expected to allow the sins of others to be reaped upon our heads. I believe God gives much knowledge and wisdom through our sins if we use them as a lesson and turn from the actions that hurt us and keep us from being productive Christians, living a life that is beneficial to others.

Sin does not send us to hell, but it sure can make life feel like a living hell. In my personal experience, I’ve learned that if I continually, habitually make the same choice over and over, it’s because I haven’t learned the lesson God is trying to teach me. For this reason alone, being that I am not God, I can never know another person’s heart and therefore should always, ALWAYS, mind my own business and tend to my own sins.

In my daily journaling, I have been asking God to answer this question, ‘will our sinful lifestyles damn us to hell, even if we believe Jesus is the ONLY BEGOTTEN SON OF GOD, WHO CAME TO SAVE US FROM OUR SINS’? Is that truly all we have to do? Today I believe He has answered me, and I think I found the answer in the most unlikely of places.

If you’ve read my last blog, you know I’ve been studying the book of Revelation, and I intend to blog through it chapter by chapter with you. I’m looking forward to it. Today my reading was Rev. 18: 4-5. From these two small verses, I feel God speaks volumes. Let’s check it out together.

“And I heard another voice from Heaven, saying, ‘Come out of her, my people, that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues. For her sins have reached unto Heaven, and God hath remembered her iniquities.”

Back up to Rev. 18:2-3, we read the angel announcing the fall of Babylon. Is this same Babylon described in Rev. 17? Maybe it’s just the two manifestations of Babylon, one religious and one commercial or material. It could be the two are one, and both are being judged at the same time. I think they are more likely the same because religion has become very commercial and materialistic even today. I can see religion becoming both of these things, to the extreme, when this point will play out these verses in time. Is Babylon of Rev. 18 a literal or a symbolic city? Some feel it is literal, but most likely commercial and religious Babylon is symbolic.

“When the Lord was here on earth He spoke of the great hatred ‘the world’ had for Him and His own (John 15:18-19). What is this world but a combination of religion, government, and commerce? In other words, Babylon in all its parts stands for that which Christ called ‘the world’.” (Barnhouse)

We know it’s God’s voice John hears in Rev. 18:4-5 because He says, “my people.” We know the “her” He speaks of is Babylon; literal or symbolic does not matter, because either way, His people are there, and He is calling them out. This proves that true Christians will still be following their religion instead of their Savior even after living through several years of tribulation. But God is so loving and forgiving. He doesn’t hold their misplaced faith (their religion, their government, or their commerce) against them. He calls out to them with a warning and a plea to “come out of her.” He is saying to His people, come home. To “come out of her” at this point will be to lose your life on this earth.

Why does God call them out? Is it to remember their sins and punish them by sending them to hell for their sinful lives? No. We are talking about Christians who are still living inside the one world religion. People who didn’t get there by living Godly, sinless lifestyles. Surely their lifestyles were wroght with many sins. People who truly believed in Jesus but never learned to hear His voice, and they followed the wolves in sheep’s clothing, their religious and political leaders. And yet, God calls them “my people,” and He does not want them to suffer from what He is about to do to “her.” “Lest you receive of her plagues.”

He did not say if they didn’t come out, they would no longer be His people, only that they would suffer from the sins of others. Did you catch that? Not suffering from their sins but the sins of others. WOW! This hit me smack in the face when I read it today. What magnitude of grace and forgiveness God gives His people!! Even though these Christians are so blatantly misled and obviously aren’t living holy lifestyles and at this point in the tribulation have witnessed spectacular, awesome acts of God, yet still refuse to come out of their sinful/lawless lifestyles, God does not plan to punish them. He doesn’t even wish them to suffer from the sins of others.

This answered the question I put before God just yesterday. How much of our sin is covered by the grace of God? The blood of Jesus completely and utterly covers us. To the point that when God looks upon us, He cannot even see our sin because Jesus washed it away with His blood at the cross. This is why in Rev. 18:5, He only speaks of “her” sins because they are not His people, they do not believe Jesus is the Son of God, their sins are still on them. Jesus’ work on the cross made it possible that when God looks upon His people, He sees us as white as snow, Holy in His sight, pure and righteous.

The reason God doesn’t want us to live sinful/lawless lives is that He doesn’t want us to suffer from the consequences of our sins. As Christians, if we are in the Word and on our knees, asking for His guidance and wisdom, we will hear when He says it is time for us to come out of our sins.

How can I, who has been forgiven so much, ever think that God cannot or will not grant that same grace to anyone? Who am I to tell anyone they need to come out of their lifestyle or go to hell. I am not God. I have no business trying to do His job.

This brings me back to 1 John 3:9; “…The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.” The reason Jesus came, not the reason I came. On the day of anyone’s salvation, that is the day Jesus destroys the work of the devil in that believer’s life. His blood covers all their sin so that Satan can no longer stand before God accusing them. If God looks upon someone who claims to be a Christian and remembers their sin (Rev. 18:5), then the only explanation can be that they truly did not believe.

And remember, these people God calls out in verse 5 must all believe they are true believers because He is calling them out of religious Babylon. I believe, as a fellow Christian, I should leave Jesus’ work to Jesus. My job is only to lead the unbelieving to Him, not change them. Jesus knows everything about His own, and when the day comes that they need to change anything in their lifestyles, He will let them know. He also knows where I cannot if that person has grown and matured enough to handle the change.

Is my belief that Jesus is the Son of God and He came to save me from my sins enough to grant me entrance into Heaven on the day my body lays in rest? Yes. Does that belief alone make me a mature adult Christian? No. That is the “works” I must do so that I don’t find myself on the wrong side, almost at the end of the seven-year tribulation, like these saints God calls out.

According to these two verses, the only people who will suffer for their sins are the unbelievers. If His people do not “come out of her,” they will not be lost but will suffer from the sins of others. When believers stand before God, we will not be judged by Him for our sins; He doesn’t see them. We will be judged and awarded according to our works. How we loved, how we forgave, our honesty, how we used our talents and blessings to bring Him glory. To those given much will be expected much (Luke 12:48). This may be how the meek, the poor, and simple will find themselves rich in rewards in Heaven. As Christ-followers, we are expected to stand before God with something to show our lives benefited others.

I cannot stand with my brothers and sisters who think themselves worthy of condemning anyone to hell with this knowledge. When I speak of religion, I speak of the group or associations that dictate to each church of a particular denomination what is to be preached and taught. More and more, I found myself sitting on a pew, listening to political talking points (depending on the church, whether they were liberal or conservative) being woven into the sermon as if they were the exact words of God.

So that’s it for now. I pray you have been blessed in some way by these words, even if it was just a tiny bit. Please, comment. I continue to pray for the conversations to start somewhere. Maybe it will be here. God bless you all! The next time we meet, we will be starting on our journey together through the book of Revelation!!

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Chruch…to attend or not to attend

In January of this year (2020), I started reading James with the intent to read straight through Revelation. I began reading Rev. 1, April 3rd, and I am just now (July 21st) to Rev. 15. A lot is going on in the book of Rev. I can’t wait to go through it with you. But I decided there is another topic that needs discussing first. Hence, the title of this blog. I decided this was the better place to start because the first few chapters of Rev. is addressed to the 7 churches. So we need to have a solid grasp on what Church means in the Bible.

If you have read my “About Blog” page, then you know I haven’t attended church in almost 8 years. I feel I must expand on this so as there can be no misunderstanding. If you attend church, are happy there, and feel you are doing your best job for Jesus through your church attendance, please, by all means, keep attending.

Personally, I had reached a point in my walk where I felt attending church wasn’t where I was supposed to be or how I was supposed to be serving Jesus. I made many life long friendships through attending church. I received love, acceptance, and help when I needed it the most. Attending church served many purposes in my growth as a Christian.

Truthfully, the circumstances in my life changed, and with those changes came a shift in my perspective. God started placing people in my life that were outside the organized church but professed to be Christians. People whose views and beliefs didn’t line up with mine. Instead of instantly rejecting them as false, I asked Jesus to show me the truth, I’ve prayed for wisdom and understanding, and I read the Bible daily. For my life, I believe that I have found understanding and wisdom. For your life, you will need to do the same between you and God.

I want to backstep a little to talk about wisdom and understanding, where it comes from, and who can access it.

2nd Cor. 11:6- “I may not be a trained speaker, but I do have knowledge”.

Exodus 4:12- “Now go, I will help you speak and will teach you what to say”.

Proverbs 1:7- “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and knowledge”.

Proverbs 4:7- “The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.

That’s just skimming the Bible’s surface verses that speak on wisdom, understanding, and where it can be accessed. The Bible makes it very clear that wisdom only comes from God (not the news, the President, Speaker of the House, or any political figure, Facebook, Twitter, or any other humanly source of “knowledge”) and anyone, ANYONE, that seeks it and asks God for it will receive it.

Here are a few more verses for reference. I encourage you to do a thorough search on your own. There are many verses on this because I believe God wants His followers to seek His wisdom and His knowledge from only His Word and nowhere else. (Proverbs 2:6; Daniel 2:20 & 28; Job 11:7; Colossians 2:2; Romans 11:33 & 36; Jeremiah 33:3; Matthew 13:11; Ephesians 1:17; Amos 3:7; John 8:31)

If you’ve read my first blog, ” Welcome Fellow Christians,” you saw that one reason I felt church attendance wasn’t the place for me at this point in my life is that it had become too organized for me. The second reason is it became too politicized. I feel this only creates more division where there should be no division at all. The more we divide ourselves, the less productive we will be.

I recently read that 65% of polled American adults identify as Christian in 2019. In 1990 it was 85%, in 2001 it was 81.6% and 78% in 2012. Christianity is declining rapidly. Could it be because of the church’s divisiveness? I most definitely believe it’s one of the reasons. Why divide the body of Christ, which was never meant to be divided at all, and divide it even further by bringing political matters to the pulpit? When I’ve brought up this point in conversations, many times, more often than not, I get this response, “The Bible tells us to watch and be knowledgeable about what’s happening in the world.” Yes, it does, kind of.

Matt. 25:13; “Be on the alert then, for you do not know the day, nor the hour wherein the Son of man cometh”

If you read this verse in the full context of the chapter, you will see that before Jesus said this, He told a parable of ten virgins and their lamps. Five were wise, and five were foolish. The foolish ones took their lamps but no oil; the wise ones took oil in containers. When the time came, the foolish had to return to purchase more oil and therefore missed the coming of the bridegroom.

If we are constantly watching the news, looking at Facebook, and not making sure we have enough oil (Biblical knowledge) to last while the Bridegroom tarries, then we are going to miss the Bridegroom. Our hearts and minds will be filled with fear, anger, mistrust, others’ judgment, hate, and malice. These are all side effects of seeking “worldly” knowledge instead of the Wisdom of God. So, even though we should know, to some extent, the goings-on of the world, we shouldn’t let it consume us. If we are to be consumed by any news, let it be from the good news, the Holy Bible.

There is a difference between referencing an event in time or history and preaching political points from the pulpit. The latter, in my humble opinion, should never happen.

That’s it for now. Don’t forget to search the Bible for verses on wisdom. Also, feel free to share verses you feel speak on church attendance. I’d love to have your feedback. Until next time!

Church…. to attend or not to attend Part 2 coming!

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Democrat Christian? Republican Christian? Or Just Christian?

The first topic I’d like to discuss is politics. This is a bad word for me. America is divided right down the middle because of it right now. More so than ever before in my life. Even Christians have divided themselves into two parties. Democrat Christians and Republican Christians. I’ve heard both say they don’t believe you can be a Christian and be a Republican or vice versa.

As Christians, I ask should we question someone’s Christianity based on their political views, their voting record, their political party of choice, or should we judge them by what the Bible has to say about how we can know one of our own?

Let’s check the Bible for the answers. I’ll list all the verses I find to help us know for sure.

Matt. 5:44 & 7:20; John 15:1-6; Rom. 14:1-23; 1 Cor. 3:1-13 & 1 Cor. 15:58; 2 Cor. 11:1; Gal. 5:16 & 22-26; Eph. 4:2 &25; Eph. 5:18; Phil. 2:1-12 & 4:7; Col. 3:12-13; 1 Thess. 4:11-12 & 5:11; 2 Tim. 1:12 & 3:9-12; Titus 2:11-14; Heb.11:6 & 12:10-11 & 13:5; James 2:14-26 & 3:17-18; 1 Pet. 4: 7-11 & 15-16 & 5:5-6; 2 Pet. 3:18; 1 John 1:3

These verses give us an idea of what attributes can be found in Christians. Let’s start with Matt. 7: 20 because it’s one most people reference when speaking on this subject. “Thus, by their fruit, you will recognize them.”

What are these “fruits” Jesus spoke of? You will find the answers in the verses listed above. I’m not going to type out each verse because I want you to open your Bible and read them for yourselves, but nowhere did I find that we can know each other by our political party of choice. With full confidence, I will say that your thinking is erring if you are guilty of this way of thinking.

Now let’s take a look at some verses to see what the Bible has to say about politics.

Prov. 21:1; Dan. 2:21; Matt. 6:24 & 22:17-21 & 28:18; John 18:36; Acts 5:29; Rom. 12:8 & 13:1-7; Phil. 3:20; 1 Thess. 4:11-12; 1 Tim. 2:1-2; 2 Tim. 2:23-24; Titus 3:1 & 9; 1 Pet. 2:17

These are just a few of the verses I feel deal with how we should view politics as Christians. The entire Bible could be viewed as political, as it speaks of a kingdom to come, one where the leaders are already in place. But let’s focus on what our role and attitudes should be regarding politics here on earth. Read through this list of verses, then ask yourself if your attitude and how you treat others with differing political views are in line with Scripture.

First, we must accept the fact that all governing authority comes from God. As Christians, our citizenship is in Heaven. Our ambition should be to live a quiet life and mind our own business. We should pray for ALL those in authority. We should strive to live peaceful lives. We are to have NOTHING to do with stupid and foolish arguments because they produce quarrels. We must not quarrel; we must be kind to everyone. We must be able to teach without being resentful. We must be subject to rulers and authorities, obedient. We must avoid foolish controversies about the law because they are unprofitable and useless. We must show proper respect to everyone. We must love the brotherhood of believers.

Do you find yourself arguing and holding resentment toward others because of their political views or party affiliation? If so, and you claim Christianity, based on what the Bible has to say, I can say that you, fellow Christian, are in err with full confidence.

That’s it for today. Please, read the verses. Search the Bible for more. Reply with any thoughts you might have, or verses you feel are relevant to this subject. Let’s get this conversation started!

Have a great day and God Bless!

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